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writes:i really need help guys! pls. pls. pls.....me and my boyfriend had sex 3x. the first one is the night when i got home then the morning and the last one was when we arrived home back from the mall. the 2x we did it, he withdraw it just in time before he ejaculate but unfortunately and sadly to say, he didn't able to withdraw it the 3rd time we did it. i'm so worried because i think I'm "unsafe/fertile" this time. and my period should be around the 2nd week this august. what is the possibility of me getting pregnant?????he told me that we should wait, and that he did it on purpose. i really don't understand why!!! because we are on a long distance relationship because I'm taking a post graduate education right now on my first year! I'm really freaking out because I'm only 22 and i wan't to achieve my goals first before getting into a family. pls.pls.pls. help me! what should i do? should i take a pill????? thank you so much for your help!
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reader, Knight_in_White_Satin  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 If it's been 72 hrs or less since you had sex then take the morning after pill. If it has been more then i'm afraid there's not a lot you can do. Don't worry too much yet, if your period is two weeks late then go see your doctor and have a pregnancy test. IF your pregnant they'll go through the three options with you.In the meantime hunny dump him faster than i can type "boo." He clearly does not respect you or your body and does not understand that if he gets you pregnant and you decide to keep the baby he is legally obligued to give you money to support the two of you. Knight xxx
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reader, esb194358  +, writes (3 August 2009):
It is too late for the pill, but next time make sure to use protection so there are less posibilities of getting pregnant. I would dump him because he does not respect you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): Firstly do not rely on the withdrawl method as there is precum,secondly if you dont want to get pregnant use protection also it is your responsibility to protect yourself from also std`s
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reader, Quacked +, writes (2 August 2009):
 I would suggest that you go to your doctors and get the emergency pill (you can get it from the chemist too). It is most effective the sooner you take it. That should put your mind at ease.If you don't want a family just yet you should consider contraception to avoid this in the future. Don't put yourself through this again...pulling out before ejaculation is not an effective prevention of pregnancy. I understand that guys don't like condoms but there are plenty of other methods - just a thought.Hope this helped...
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reader, guywithlove +, writes (2 August 2009):
ofcourse you should..and if you do not get periods go to your doc..and do not let that a**hole enter inside you...forever...u deserve a lot better.
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