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writes:ok... my boyfriend and i had been fooling around during this weekend. we had sex when on the night i arrived, then the morning, well he withdraw just before he would burst out inside me. but the bad thing is that we had sex again the night before i am suppose to leave the same day but unfortunately he didnt withdraw it. but said he feel something he came out. i really need help! i dont want to get pregnant at this time. what should i do? and what is the pill after morning? is that the birth control pill? pls. help! thank you!!!!!
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reader, Moogie06  +, writes (3 August 2009):
Like Rifraf said, the morning after pill is used to prevent pregnancy and is effective if used IMMEDIATELY within 3 days of having intercourse.
The rate of effectiveness gets less and less each day after the first day.
So basically the sooner you get it after your intercourse the better.
Also, what you should know is that all it does is prevent sperm from sticking to the uterus and fertilizing [I'm simplifying here a bit].
If you're already pregnant [like for example from the times before] it really isn't a help at all. It doesn't stop you from being pregnant already.
But really better safe than sorry.
GO GET IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE if you're worried!
Unfortunately I don't know what it's called in the Philippines but in Canada it goes under Plan B. Perhaps its the same over there.
Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): Hey, i had the recently had the same problem, me and my boyfriend had sex but didnt use protectionm i went straight to the doctors the next day and got the morning after pill it has some really long name that i cant rememeber, but basically it stops any chance of pregnancy, there are sometimes side affects, i didnt have any tho. It was really worrying tho, plus im quite young and would have just ruined everything, but i would recommend that you get the morning after pill, go to your doctors or the hospital. You are meant to take it within 75hours of unprotected sex but it works better the earlier you take it. Birth control pill is a pill that you take every day that prevents something like 98% chance of getting pregnant but its only 98% so that the company isnt liable if you forget to use the pill. Hope this helps (:
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reader, Myrtis  +, writes (3 August 2009):
 Auntie Myrtis knows what she's saying when she tells you that you are taking dangerous chances.....
The only thing good for pulling out is a train, which usually pulls out of the station on time. Penises cannot pull out on time, and here is why:
The goo that comes out of the end of the penis in order to provide lubrication for it to slide into the vagina can contain sperm cells. That's right! Lots of sperm cells, though it only takes one to get you pregnant.
If you live in an area where the morning-after pill is legal, get yourself to a place where you can get it and take it ASAP. While you are at it, buy some condoms. You don't have any business having unprotected sex. Let me repeat that. YOU DON'T HAVE ANY BUSINESS HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX.
Now, Auntie Myrtis is going to preach some. You might be old enough to have sex, but you aren't responsible enough. Why? Because responsible people look out for themselves and take care of themselves. They also look down the road a bit and see how miserable they will be if they leave such an important event as pregnancy to chance. Hon, you are not responsible enough to be a parent until you can take care of yourself. And the poor kid who gets you for a mom? I quake in my cute little silver boots just thinking about it. Get yourself some birth control. Pills are best. Diaphragms depend on a person being responsible enough to put it in before sex, and that's not you. Yet, anyway. Don't depend on old wives tales, like if you douche with a Coke or Pepsi, the sperm is washed out. WRONG. Remember, it only takes one teeny tiny sperm to change your life forever.
And where's your boyfriend in all this? You need to have a talk with him pronto. That means FAST. He should share responsibility with you for safe sex. If he won't, you have to kiss him goodbye. You can't put your life (and an innocent maybe-baby's) in his hands if he's (1) a jerk (2) an idiot (3) as irresponsible as you USED to be.
Wake up, gal, you are in big trouble. Face up to it and do what you have to do to protect yourself or I'm gonna be reading your next post titled, "AUGH, I was stupid, and I'm going to be a mommy."
Worst of all, I'll say, "Told you so." Trust me, you don't want to hear that.
Love and good luck from your Auntie Myrtis.
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