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*eather75
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years..we met at work. and he was the man of my dreams for the first time in my life I felt completely whole. I had never had someone who satisfied me in every way I felt so lucky! He wanted me to move in with him 2 years into our relationship and I explained to him that since we worked together I didn't think that was such a great idea at the time and he agreed and was okay with that. 6 months after that conversation he became emotionally and physically withdrawn, he was moody, cold, and he was not the same man I had fallen in love with...and my instincts told me something was wrong..and sure enough I was right. I tried talking to him and he puts up a wall and refuses to talk about it. Everytime I would bring it up he would completely shut down and not say a word to me. I felt like he left me no choice so I started to snoop through his emails, instant messages, and phone and found out he was emotionally cheating with a girl he met online while playing World of Warcraft. My heart was shattered and I could hardly breathe when I read emails and instant messages between him and the girl. I confronted him about it and he denied everything even when the proof was staring him in the face. I didn't want to give up on him so we decided to work it out and things were bumpy but we or so I thought made it through that. I finally moved in with him 11 months ago and he completely stopped showing all affection and we stopped having sex. I would bring up the fact to him that we haven't had sex in awhile and he would always say "I'm too fat" and that would be it end of discussion. I was so frustrated, confused, lonely and starved for affection that I gave into temptation and cheated on him with a friend of mine. Well he found out confronted me and I admitted what I had done and we both agreed to break up. But deep down I just can't let this relationship go...I love him so much and want to try again. Should I try talking to him? Is there any hope for us? Thank you
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reader, heather75 +, writes (3 August 2009):
heather75 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you icelordess. Yes, it does hurt very bad right now and since I have to live with him in the meantime things are so weird. Thanks again
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reader, heather75 +, writes (2 August 2009):
heather75 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you! Your answers have given me alot to think about...I don't and can't be friends with him because it would hurt too much...I'm trying to find a new place to live so I can try and move on with my life. Thanks again
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