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writes: hi friends.i agree that i dont look superb.but have a cute face.still i am not proposed.do looks really matter to get a boyfriend?i see girls who look horrible too get someone or the other.is it me only who is facing such fate?please reply.although i know i have not such a big problem but its bugging me.thanks in advance! Reply to this Question
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reader, Elliiott  +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Hey, Don't worry about how you look, If you do find a boyfriend it is because, He loves you and what you are !
And he shouldn't care how you look.
Here's an example, I have a girlfriend, And I have to admit, I could do better, I don't want to brag, But I'am pretty good looking myself.
But I don't want better, I want her, And don't really care about her looks, Or what anyone else thinks.
I hoped I helped, Good luck !
- Elliott.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): they matter but they aint the most important thing!
You probably know you are good looking deep down but the fact you wonder this may tell a lot about your self esteem. its more important to find someone who loves you on the inside, not what you look like. Of course they have to fancy you at the start, but thats only called "lust"
its more important in a boyfriend that he is always there for you, cares for you, and that you can trust him..otherwise looks mean very little.
i heard this quote "sometimes the heart can see what the eye can't"
i think this is true in love :) you are seeing the person on the inside, rather than how pretty they are. but when we first meet somebody we do go by looks. its not selfish, its just natural for us to be like this. but some relationships devolop over time and looks may not be the most important factor.
dunno if all this makes sense but hope it helped a bit :)
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