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writes:I'm a 15 year old girl with long brown hair and blue eyes are medium height and average weight. Why when i walk down the high street does no boys turn round and take a second look and me or smile and me or look like their looking at me? How do i get noticed? and dont worry i not a sad little weird loner than dresses like their from the 70's i always follow the latest trendsplease i want to be noticed, i want a random boy i never met before come up to me and start talking to me.please help! how do i get noticed?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Legioness +, writes (3 August 2009):
 Body language, my dear. It wouldn't matter if you looked like kate moss without at least the basics of carrying yourself your chances of getting a glance are gonna plummet. It's all in the walk. Grace, something not many women actually do these days, but will always grab attention from the lads. Work on your walk, it's hard to explain really, but strut in a glide like way if that makes sense? Show confidence in your walk like you own the street, hold your head high and use your hips to your advantage. Practise and try it, you'll be suprised :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): wear something different .if you wear same dresse as other girls no one would take notice of you.its nice and gives a chilled effect to keep a chewing gum in your mouth but not advisable to show off and chew as if cud chewing.traditional dresses can also make you look superb.or may be thi is not the time for your make up .i expect its your board exams this year as you may be in tenth.i too will have to give my board this year.i am 15 but didnt face the problem you faced.most of the boys look back at me but my fate they dont propose me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): You need to have confidence to get noticed!! I think that's the most important thing. Put your shoulders back, feel that you're going to get noticed and you will be :) You'll naturally start to catch their eye for a second and smile playfully as you walk past. I always have guys turn to look at me on the street, say 'hi' as I walk past or try and stop me to have a conversation. And before you decide I must be more attractive than you, I'm sure that I'm not (I'm pretty average). It's all in the confidence. I know this for sure because an ex of mine would make me feel bad about myself (for complicated reasons) and during that time when I was feeling much less confident, no random guys looked at me or talked to me. As soon as I ditched him and started building my confidence again - boom! I started attracting attention again. Build your confidence and know that you're something pretty special :)
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reader, charliemouse1989 +, writes (3 August 2009):
Hey there...
Well the best thing to do is not try so hard, dont follow your friends like dont wear exactly the same thing as them, be different and dont go out in big groups, look like you are having fun with your mates rather than looking about to see if anyone looks at you.
Hope that helps =D x.x.x
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reader, Discover me  +, writes (3 August 2009):
Thanks for making fun if the way I dress lol. But the thing is I get noticed in goodways not all the time but most of the time. three major things. Hair. Makeup. Attitude. Do not keep your hair like everyone else. And don't cut it too short. But add colors like red blonde or black like me I have blonde bangs. Next is makeup. Keep it real wear it how you feel that day well if your parents don't flip. Then if you do get noticed don't show your exitment smile flirt and ask to meet out later or give your number. If your comfterble with that. If your not just go with your gut nice or not nice you kno. that's like the 3 major things.Hope I helped
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