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anonymous
writes: i have been divorced for nine years and i have been seeing a guy for almost the same amount of time. he is the only guy i have dated since my divorce. i love him so much and he still takes my breath away when he passionately kisses me. he has been divorced two times and it has been about fifteen years since his last divorce. he has a sixteen year old daughter by his last wife. i have seventeen, fifteen, and thirteen year old children. i am forty now and he is fifty-five. my question is, will he ever ask me to be his wife, it's been almost nine years.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (2 August 2009):
You should talk to him and see how he feels about marriage. Since he's already been married twice he might not want to do it again, but then again he might. He knows better than we do.
Good luck.
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reader, rcn +, writes (2 August 2009):
There's not enough information to know better, yes or no. What I'm wondering is, after 2 divorces, how does he view marriage. Divorce isn't easy and sure isn't cheap. He might be comfortable with the situation, not wanting to get into something that may break the bank if for whatever reasons it doesn't work. What I'd do is first find out how he feels about marriage, then you can go from there.
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