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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ive been dating this guy and he cheated on me, and my family knows and they hate him...but i still love him with all my heart no matter what anybody says. im not desparate or pathetic i just know who i really love. but my question is if my family finds out...what should i do!?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 September 2008):
Well they aren't going to punish you if they find out... they are just going to try and help you get over him.
And to be honest that is what you need right now.
It doesn't matter if you love him - he's an arse hole so you need to not love him any more.
Don't be a martyr, it's not clever and doesn't acheive anything.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): I don't doubt that you're in love. But unfortunately it takes more than love. Without respect and fidelity and compatibility, you've only got part of what you need from a healthy relationship. If your BF is not a good relationship for you, then you need to break it off with him. You really WILL do this eventually even if it takes another 10 years. It's just a question of how long you wait before then. The longer this continues, the harder it will be to split up, and the more of your youth that you will eventually regret wasting on him. There's really no choice you could make about this that won't hurt you now in some way. But some choices hurt less than others.
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