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writes:I've known this guy since I was in sophomore year of high school, and when I say known I mean we knew each other as "friendly acquaintances". We went to different high schools and I was always, and still am, the quiet and unsure girl. I knew him through our church and around the first semester of my junior year and his senior year there was a church dance. He asked me to dance with him and I started realizing, "hey, he's really cute". We've never moved beyond the friendly acquaintance mode though. I was fine with that after a while when I thought I'd never see him again long enough for a relationship to develop after he graduated and was gone for 2 years out of the country. He came back at the beginning of this summer and said that he was going to go to utah, then california for work and then come back here for school. After he mentioned that he asked me what I was doing for the summer and I told him about how I was getting ready to transfer to a university (not the one he said he'd be taking classes at). A few weeks later, he's in utah and his mother mentions one day at church that he's decided to go to another school, MY school. Did he change his mind because of me, I was wondering. I've never flattered myself like that though, never thought I was that much of a catch that a guy would change his school just to be with me. He's here now though, and by some twist of fate we are again going to the same church meeting time because our church divides us into meeting times by regions. I want to approach him and see if he's interested in me but we've never managed to have a real conversation. I see him talking to other people, other girls, so easily and then we barely talk I'm not that good at making conversation, but I get a lot more conversation out of most other guys EXCEPT him. What do I do? I should be past this sort of trouble with guys... Shouldn't I be too old for this sort of stuff? Is he interested in me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): Hello lovelet. When a guy is tongue-tied around a girl for sure this means that he could like you. If you're tongue tied around him then he may think you're not interested - or hopefully he will think that you are! Fifthquadrant.
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reader, claireleatherdale  +, writes (9 September 2008):
 hunni from what u say i think he likes u i mean if he can talk 2 other girls and not u there must be somthing there why not ask him to see a movie with you because at the movies you don't need 2 talk and then see where u go from there u never know it might all work out for you weather ur bf and gf or the best of friends it doesn't matter u've won either way
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