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writes:I am 27yrs old guy i am very much atracted towards my cousin who is 17yrs old. Every time i see her i feel to make love with her.I have a girlfriend and we have sex when ever we get a chance. But then also when ever I see my cousin i dont know what happens to me. Even though my girfriend is more goodlooking and has a nice figure than my cousin.My cousin also loves spending time with me and she never misses a chance to touch me.And the same is with me also. When ever we are together she donot likes any one else to come there. But i dont know how to approach her.Tellme what to do. How to approach her.
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (9 September 2008):
You're way to old to be fooling with a 17 year old! I know things may be a little different over there in India, but i'm sure your family wouldn't be supportive of you having a relationship with your teen cousin! You shouldn't even have time to get into that stuff with her it you are a good boyfriend, because the time you are fooling with her you'd be spending with your girlfriend. It's ok to hang out with your cousin, just tell her that you was wrong to make sexual advances on her and that she should find a nice guy her own age.
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reader, arm7d +, writes (9 September 2008):
To be blunt, she's your cousin and she's 17, and you need to stop what you're doing before this goes too far. She might be too young to understand the consequences of these kinds of things, but you aren't. If you get involved with her and it goes sideways for whatever reason, things with your family, your friends, the law, could be really, really bad. I understand that you can't help how you feel around this girl, so my advice is just to put some distance between you and her. Don't spend time with her alone. Don't talk to her on the phone except about family stuff. Don't go out with her, etc. In time, your feelings for her will fade, and I promise you you will be happier that you took a step back while you still could.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): You asked the same question either yesterday or the day before. How many more times are you going to ask it? Didn't you like the answers?
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reader, claireleatherdale  +, writes (9 September 2008):
 i gotta say u cant help who u fall for but be careful she may just love the fact that she's got a nice guy who's sexually experanced after her what u need 2 do is find out who u want in ur bed more ur gf or ur cousin because ur not being fair 2 ur gf by lusting after ur cousin is it the fact u cant have ur cousin that makes u want her more i did notice u used the words make love when u talked about ur cousin and sex when u talked about ur gf there is a difference between the 2 making love is where u wouldn't notice the world was ending and sex is if the phone rings u'll hear it and answer even if u do carry on afterwards so have a long hard think and do right by ur gf she deserves at least that
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reader, starismine1 +, writes (9 September 2008):
 Do yourself a favor and stay as far away from your cousin as possible. Feelings like this are common, but the consequencese will make your life hell. It sounds like you really care about your girlfriend, is it worth loosing her over some incontrollable hormonal urge? And believe me, you will lose her if you do anything. Touching each other is inappropriate, but that's probably what makes it so exiting for you. But it won't feel exciting after you realize it was just another sexual conquest with devasting emotional payback. You will never be able to look her in the face and feel good about yourself as time goes on, and she will always be there to remind you of the bad choice you made and the guilt will haunt you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): That is very, very dangerous and you should really consider the consequences before you and your cousin become intimate, believe me once you get couth up in something like that it is very difficult to get out of.
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