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Too much competition for her, do I stand a chance?

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Question - (9 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 September 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *annyp writes:

hey im great freinds with her but i know my other freind is trying to get her to like him aswell the thing is i have her number i gave it to him now hes texting her all the time and I'm not we just talk a little bit on the internet and I know i like her but I'm too scared to compete with my freind incase i lose him the other problem is she likes someone else from the swimming class i av competition but competing for a girl just is'nt my style.

is there anything else i can do?

do i stand a chance?

if so when and how should i pop the question?

plz help

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A female reader, MissMilly United Kingdom +, writes (10 September 2008):

MissMilly agony auntHi There,

Don't count yourself out just yet, try and get to know her more. On the internet think of more conversation to talk about such as do you watch the X-Factor or what did you do last weekend. Give her complitments like your hair looks really nice today or your eyes just glitter. Don't make a common mistake that alot of boys make don't act like you hate her and push her about. Find out her birthday and mabey get her a present. Try and be sensitive to her needs.

Remember don't treat the girl like a prize. There is also a saying that goes "Pals before Gals!" So remember not to fall out with your friend over this girl because in the long run she may just not be worth it. You could also try and get her attention but i think for now you should try and become her friend before you try to become her boyfriend. Then when you are good friends ask her.

Goodluck, Miss Milly.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (10 September 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntGo up to her sometime when she is alone and ask her if she would like to go with you to get a soft drink, or ice cream, or coffee, fill in the blank. If she's a nice girl she will let you down gently and if she is interested she'll say yes. Nothing ventured nothing gained.

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