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writes:OK, so I don't know where I stand on this guy. He told me he liked me, we cuddled and got touchy at one point, but then this past weekend I pretty much gave him the idea that I wasn't really interested. Now I'm not so sure. He's like one of my guy friends and he's sweet but I there are just some things about him that just plain erck me. I would love to have a FWB relationship with him because I've had one before and it was great, but I don't want to be totally afraid of commitment, plus I'm not sure how I would bring something like that up in conversation. I don't know what I want, or how to figure out what I want. Did I ruin things? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 October 2008):
If he likes you then having a FWB relationship with him would basically be using him for sex. He doesn't want that. He wants you to be with him, but there is good chance that he would agree to FWB because he'll see it as a way in to a relationship with you.
It's always flattering to find out someone likes you, and when someone strokes your ego then of course you are going to consider a relationship with them because of that.
But if you do not like him then just tell him you want to stay mates because it would never work out any other way.
He may need some time away from you to get over you but hopefully you can stay mates in the long term.
Good Luck!! xx
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