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writes:Ok, first of all thanks to anyone who responded to my last question about being a jilted person w/a crush. If you did not see it, you may want to read that first...but,from you all and my friends I learned that I was used, abused and walked all over by someone I wanted so badly to have a relationship with. All he wanted was some fun. He used me and hurt me, so why is letting go so hard? Why is it so hard for me to just cut him out of my life. He does not want me to contact him every again, why is this so hard? He was a jerk right? But, he was also a fiend first. I have never had to let someone just walk out of my life.......So when will the pain stop. when will I feel better inside. What do I do, when I think about him everyday, Not in a romatic way, as I have a wonderful boyfriend...but, just in a friendly way. I wonder how he is, I wish I could tell him happy B-day, so why is letting go so hard?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): Maybe you're not having such a hard time letting go partly BECAUSE he was such a jerk.You've already won the new guy if he's treating you well. But you couldn't acheive what you wanted from the jerk. And you still got enough sex and friendly times from him to feel emotionally connected to him anyway.
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reader, Analdia +, writes (9 September 2008):
 It's so hard because you don't have your mind on anything else but him.Try doing ohter things with another guy like going to the movies or just do something romantic with him.You also feel this way because he just let you down.I understand.all you have to do is treat yourself to something good and try to have as much as fun as possible.
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