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I have a bf but I'm in love with my ex bf! What should I do?

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Question - (9 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

[moderator's note: Next moderator, I believe this question was previously accepted but I couldn't find it anywhere. Probably you'll find it? If not just accept. Thanks]

I am 16 and i am in love with an ex. When i was 14 I met him,he was 16 and rather gorgous. We went out for a couple of months. It wasnt serious, cause i was only 14, then we split up over him liking my best friend. After that he went round my friends in a way... none lastin until he was with a friend of mine for over a year. By this time I had been with his best friend, and cousin.

When i was about 15 and a half i broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months and was near enough heartbroken. And around that time he broke up with his girlfriend. We sat up talking about old times and decided to meet. By which time we shared our first kiss in a year and a half. Then when we kissed, we felt bad cause he had a girlfriend, I knew this made it wrong.. but it was in the moment. We ended up seeing each other for abot 8 months, while he had a string of girlfrends,and i met his parents and got along with them really well. Now he's back, and he's changed and is faithful. We see each other loads and get on really well. I can be myself around him, which never happens.

Then a few days ago we were in his room play fighting and he kissed me again. It felt right, even though i have a bf. He didnt know i had a bf and i dont know wat it means.

What do ya'll think?

Am a virgin so no comments like "you sleep around alot, it's obvious"

Getting him out of my life isnt an option.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008):

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Okay, so things changed quite a bit,

I broke up with the bf, felt too bad.

Well, he finished with me, because i was scared of him being sort of abusive. We werent in love. I knew that all along, he just made me feel good about myself.

The boy i am 'in love' with has got a new gf, who lives miles away, and i don't know what to do.

I need to know what you guys think, because you're not biased at all.

I know the sitch is fucked, but like, i want to wait for him.

Is any guy worth that?

Again = No slag comments please.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008):

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Thanks but it's not that simple.

I need to know if my ex is worth trying again with, i think he is but friends tell me different

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008):

wow...I pity your current bf. I mean if you love your ex...that means you don't love your current bf

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008):

Well first you should see how much your current BF loves you..But if you are in love with your ex then go for it

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