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writes:This guy at work and I were attracted to each other. So as to cut thru the crap I came out and told him that I wanted to have sex with him, which we never did. Now he has a girlfriend (she works there too) and I think he told her what I said to him - how horrible!! Of course, I'm very upset about this because it was supposed to be a very private issue between him and me only, and not something that he should be telling others. How do I handle this with him? Please help with suggestions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi all, and thanks for your feedback. I should say that this guy and I have known each other for over two years and have also been flirting together for almost that long. Then he started playing games, I played as well then I decided to nip it in the bud and get to the point which is why I just came right out and said what I did after giving it alot of thought. He was flattered but I guess I scared him off.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 September 2008):
 That's WHEN not whne
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 September 2008):
Next time I wouldn't "cut thru the crap" and would wait until you know him better before you offer him sex. Whne you act like a class act you get treated like a class act. Lesson learned.
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