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*onyfromnewyork
writes:So about a week ago while in Cancun on vacation with a friend I was at Cocobongo when this very attractive woman gave me a stare from across the room. This is when I should have known something was up, after all there were about 2,500 people in this club and I had the eye from a stunning girl across the room without having done anything.Anyway long story short, This very attractive woman, who happens to be wearing a shirt that only covers her breasts while leaving her nearly topless started to chat it up with me. Within moments while we were tearing up the dance floor and drinking shots she informed me that she was there with her husband. I looked over my shoulder and there he was; within ten feet of me starring at his wife dance with another man. I was very confused by such an event and decided to play it cautious. However ,as the shots continued and the night went on she encouraged me to be more comfortable, to enjoy myself, to understand that her husband likes to watch her with other men!I initially had a very hard time understanding how someone's husband would like to watch them man-handled by another man at a discotech however within a matter of moments I was the guy all over this guy's wife. As we got heavier and heavier into the night and our events, we quickly became the center of attention at this club with over 2,000 people. Her shirt which was split down the center quickly revealed her breasts, her hand held my penis and my fingers slid into her vagina. Now in a club this size, its not normal practice to have waiters coming up to you to ask you if you'd like a drink. Within 2 minutes of this hot and heavy action occuring on the dance floor we had people all around us asking us if we wanted things; and of course they had their chance for a close up peak. All these people looking at us made it easier for me to overlook the fact that her husband was looking also...In the end, she invited me back to her hotel room. I told her I did not wish to be chopped up into little peice and that I was not quite sure why her husband would follow us to the room and watch. She introduced me to him and it put me at ease that I was not in complete danger but that he was in fact interested in watching. We walked into the room, She performed oral on me, put a condom on me and we had sex for probably close to two hours. Most of the time her husband was watching us masterbating in the background or taking photos. I must admit that my time spent having sex with her was a bit overwhelming. She had informed me that she had not had sex in 3 months and that was why she was in pain sometimes when I inserted her forcefully. During these times I would slow my movement and share in more of a love making experience than raw sex. At the end of the night I decided that despite not having orgasmed it was time to go, her husband had ran to the bathroom and now was sitting patiently while I had intercourse with his wife. Time to go it was.... I asked for a cig and left. As the days passed I've asked myself alot of questions and wished I could have a conversation with Cam* and/or Jor*. Questions:1. Why would anyone want to watch thier wife have sex with another man for hours?2. Why would she not have had sex for three months prior to me?3. What does Que Rico mean? (she kept saying it)4. What do you call a couple like this? (not swingers)5. How come I can not get this experience out of my head? (I've had threesomes, I've had sex with more than a handful of girls) Yet this one experience left me confused and wanting to know more. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): Dude, when she says "Que rico!" it literally translates to "how rich" but she is obviously not talking about money. In a non-literal sense, it means "Oh yeah!" and that she is enjoying herself.She probably hadn't had sex in 3 months either because 1) her husband couldn't get it up, or 2) she had an abortion and had to wait until it was safe again.Thirdly, her husband and her wanted that situation because some couples get off on it. Cancun is a place where couples GO TO DO THAT SORT OF THING.
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (9 September 2008):
Maybe they will post the pitcure up on the internet for the whole world to see LOL!
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reader, liloland  +, writes (9 September 2008):
wow
that sounds bizarre.
how do you know that the guy was the 'husband'
if i were you
i'd be worried that maybe she was a prostitute and a liar
and that the guy was a pimp and that he has taken photos of you that might be distributed online and you have been used.
maybe that's the reason you are confused about this issue.
on one hand, it's highly erotic, but also, you have also been 'targeted' and 'used' and victimised. that of course, for some people who get off on voyeurism (e.g. people who watch porn) seeing a dominant woman over power a weak and vulnerable man, is about the 'man' who is watching seeing the 'woman' overpowering a weaker man, so it makes them feel more 'macho' by identifying with the 'woman' using sex to intimidate and overpower the man.
the woman acts like a 'beast' who hunts down her prey and catches him and uses him, for the 'master'.
you have been used like a 'toy' for the cat.
I imagine that is also the reason that you didn't actually 'come', because I imagine, that you weren't sure about what your exact role was in the story.
Maybe you were drugged as well, because it sounds like you 'performed' all kinds of weird stuff in that disco that normally maybe your inhibitions would stop you from doing.
Maybe it was a 'special kind of club'.
Otherwise, I am wondering, was this some kind of 'fantasy' that you walked into. Or maybe it was some 'fantasy' that this couple dreamt up for you to 'walk into' like bait.
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reader, littlemomma +, writes (9 September 2008):
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1) some guys like to see their mate or "other half" in pleasure but cant please them themselves for one reason or another. Like say they physically cant due to a medical condition, or just cant seem do things he or she likes...
2)Kinda goes with #1
3)I found this: "que rico" literally means "how rich" but it has a double meaning. For food, it means that it seems delicious (rico is used in spanish to express delight) - including food - (que rico!) but it can also mean "rich" in the sense of value too.
4)sorry no clue there
5)proly 'cause you enjoyed yourself and/or your head is just to boggled at the idea of it that you still cant quite believe it actually happend
Hope that helps!!
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reader, miss know it all +, writes (9 September 2008):
Que Rico means that something smells rich, this man gets off on watching his wife having sexual intercourse with other men, maybes her husband doesent like her having sex with him or she could have giving birth previously, there are alot of reasons why she might not have had sex for three months. I think your left feeling like this because uve never experienced anything like it before and it has confused you to the point of why she chose you and because you cant get it out of your head sounds ike you enjoyed it. Why dont you start by looking on some internet sites to find out more.
good luck hunny
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): I am no expert; the only logical explanation that I can come up with is that you are infatuated with the idea of her husband watching you having sex with his wife, maybe that is what he gets off on. Who knows hell we are all so complex and erotic.
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