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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was out recently, got heavily drunk and went home with a girl. I have never had sex before and the last thing I remember was sitting on her couch saying “I’m going to go to sleep”. I woke up the next morning on top of her friend’s bed (in her friend’s room), with the buttons of my trousers unbuttoned and my belt unfastened. Although, my shoes where in her room! I know the girl and she seems fairly reasonable. I went into her room and the buttons of her clothing were undone and her bra was open. I asked her if she remembered us doing anything and she said “I can’t remember” (she had been drinking heavily also). I asked “why I was in the other girl’s room” and she said “we must have had an argument”. I then said “surely, one of us would remember doing something”. She joked and said, “I’m not sure, we’ll know in nine months time”.Surely, one of us would remember doing something? No? Surely, I would remember if we had done something!?I hope you can give me some advice….I know this whole scenario sounds ridiculous coming from a young Man….but, it’s been on my mind for a while now and I need advice.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (11 September 2008):
 well ive never been that drunk thank god, you shouldnt get that drunk it can badly affect your health and your actions..their is no telling what happened unless your mind opens up. get her to do a pregnancie test to see if she is pregnant and if so then a dna test then yo will no for sure the score..best advice dont do it in future.. good luck aphexy xx
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reader, Sandman  +, writes (10 September 2008):
 Let me start off by stating the obvious: getting THAT drunk is VERY dangerous! Getting that drunk sets you up for many, many issues down the road.
I mean, where you raped? What she raped? If you can't remember, you probably weren't in a good enough state of mind to say "no" to someone's sexual advances.
OR, it could be someone playing a trick on you guys. Maybe someone else came into the house and saw how drunk you all were and created a "scene" to make you believe that something happened. Stranger things have happened when people are drunk.
Take care not to get this drunk again - especially if you do not want to repeat this chapter again.
Hope this helps.
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