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female
age
36-40,
*ortoner
writes: I have been going out with this guy for about 6 months now...I could see myself being happy with him for the rest of my life... but we are both graduating college soon and I plan on leaving the country, so it probably isn't going to work. The point of this post is that I recently kessed another guy. we made out, that is where it ended... I don't feel bad about this becuase I know that my BF and I are not going to work out anyways... but the other guy, one of my close friends feels horrible for being the one that cheated... how can i convince him that it is ok, that I still want to be friends... and that he is not a horrible person? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, mack hall +, writes (9 September 2008):
just tell him that you just wanted to see what he was like, that what he did was because of you and wasn't his fault. im pretty sure he will understand what you mean by that and will most likely still want to be friends with you too. and maybe if you just give him some time to think about what you have told him and don't expect an immediate answer everything will turn out to be fine.
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