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writes: I have a guy friend who trust me with everything also he gets in trouble a lot! One day when I got to school, I found out that some of windows had broken with a baseball bat. Well, he told me he hates the school and he did it. I couldn't handle the guilt knowing people are having to pay something they didn't ever do. When I told on him he got in so much trouble. Now he won't talk to me at all. He calls and makes fun of my disability (I have trouble reading and talking clearly). Why he is being a jerk? Did I do the right thing? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 September 2008):
Hold your head up high and don't let him get to you. Hang up when he calls if he starts being rude. You don't have to shout at him, just put the phone down. I think ignoring him for the time being might be the best thing, as he's probably still upset. He's wrong to be upset and wrong to do the vandalism, but it sounds like he's really immature. Maybe when he's older and someone does something like this to his house or car, he'll understand. But for now, he's just not thinking things all the way through. There are times in life when you have to avoid people who are doing dangerous or stupid things. It's just common sense to do that, otherwise you might get in trouble or hurt yourself.
So continue to be brave and honest and you'll be just fine. Good luck with school!
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