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Should I tell him I made a mistake for breaking up or should I just try to move on?

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Question - (9 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 September 2008)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

seven months ago i broke up with my bf coz he wasnt paying atention 2 me. since then i havent been able 2 date,am stil madly in luv wit him. i think abt him a lot n it is very painful coz i dont think he misses even though he calls me once in a while. shud i tel him i made a mistake, that i want him back or i shud just let go?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008):

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As far as i know he never cheated. during december holidays i went 2 visit some of family members in another province. while i was there i called him in the middle of the night n he switched his phone off. i came back 9 days later n i told him i was back. i had 2 wait a couple of weeks b4 i could c him. my friend n i once pop it at his work place n he wasnt happy 2 c us at all. i tried by all means 2 show n tel him that i was feeling left out bt 2 no vail. i got tired of waiting n broke up wit him.abt 2 months ago he called me 2 ask if i had already replaced n i told him i was 2 buzy 2 date.

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A female reader, starismine1 United States +, writes (10 September 2008):

starismine1 agony auntI'm not convinced the reason you give for the breakup is the real reason, most women who feel their boyfriend isn't giving them enough attention are usually not the ones who break up with them. Did he date other women? You need to be more honestt with yourself about what really happened between the two of you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008):

hi ya... if it was me i would tell him how i feel, but before i would do that i would perpare myself just incase he dont feel the same way.... you never know he could feel the same way about you... wish u luck.x

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