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My girlfriend claims she was raped - but I think she just cheated on me!

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Question - (9 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *lag0oliz35 writes:

My girlfriend left this guy who was father to her daughter her sister told her I cheated on her and she tried to sleep with hime but he forced himself on her and she was drunk I didn't belive he forced himself on her I though it was just an excuse so the whole most of the relationship I tried to get her back and now she is so angry with me and she lashes out in anger but when were together its endless kissing hugging holding and I love yous but her words say diffrent n some of her actions so does she truly love me and should I believe this guy forced himself on her plzzz I need advice on this relationship ps th question I posted b4 ignore it

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A female reader, flag0oliz35 United States +, writes (9 September 2008):

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flag0oliz35 agony auntThanks so much for your answer they did help but she lashes out in anger beacuse of the things I've done to get her back I just wanted know if she still loves me and you answered that question for me thank you

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A female reader, flag0oliz35 United States +, writes (9 September 2008):

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flag0oliz35 agony auntThanx so much for your answer they did help but she lashes out in anger beacuse of the things I've done to get her back I just wanted know if she still loves me ? you answered that question for me thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008):

one of the worst things that can happin to a girl is rape... but it makes it worse when no one will believe you about what happined and you are completely alone. Believe her unless you have tangeble evidence that it didn't happen... if it was rape, and she is not willing to go to the poliece, which she should, don't force her, tell her to write the story down incase she wants to later. If you want a relationship with her you are going to have to build trust... it sounds like you can't trust her right now which isn't a very good start of a relationship. which means that you should probably sit and talk, at least on the phone... she needs to be heard...

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A female reader, claireleatherdale United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2008):

claireleatherdale agony auntok i think u should believe her because i think it might of started off with well u did it why cant i but then she got cold feet and said no but some men cant take no for an answer and carried on. when it comes to her anger i believe that it's due to her putting up a defence line if u cross it she'll lash out help her build up her trust in people again show her that ur sorry 4 not believeing her and that not all people are bad and with a bit of time alot of love she'll be back to her old self again

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