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writes:I'm almost 17 and i never had a relationship before... Now i have a crush on guy that we are on the same class and we' re sitting sometimes together, but i don't know what to do, how to approach him. I'm afraid that i'm gonna make fool of myself. Do you have any ideas how to flirt with him without to seem desperate?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2008): be yourself..thats always inportant. make sure that you use your eyes as a way of flirting. if you notice out of the corner of your eye that he's looking at you,then look back-but DONT smile. use your eyes..smile with them. and on fridays or mondays,possibly wear a cute dress/outfit to make him notice you.
remember,hes chasing you-not the other way around.
now,if you guys start texting and talking on the phone..thats the perfect way to practice your flirting skills because there is no facial expressions and its way less nervewracking in person. from time to time casually say things that will drive him nuts. NO SLUTTY TEXTS..because then he will think that your just looking for sex or something..
one of my favorite things to do is say im talking to my friend____(insert guy name)..
thats just to see how he reacts and if its a jealous reaction..
hes a winner!!:]
hope you found this helpful!
GOOD LUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys!!! Your answers were really helpful :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): First thing is dont worry about making a fool of yourself...Confidence is very sexy and if you really like this guy then tell him how you feel.but first make sure that he is available lol..If not then that can get messy.Find out what his likes are and his dislikes..Maybe hang out a little after class...If he likes you the way you like him then he will go along with it and eventualy he will ask you out...our u can ask him out...either way works:)
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reader, starismine1  +, writes (10 September 2008):
 He can probably sense you like him, these kinds of things are hard to hide, even though we may not consciously realize we send out the signals. Usually when we have a "crush" on a guy we act more inhibited around him, avert our eyes, giggle more, whispere to our friends more, and give out a certain kind of body chemistry. Guys sense this. If you like him, don't worry about "flirting", just be yourself and make yourself approachable enough to have conversations with him. Guys don't only go for the flirtacious girls unless they just want casual sex with her, so, if he likes you, being yourself will be enough for him to notice you and make a move. If you go out of your way to do things like move close to him when you usually wouldn't do this, you will appear awkward and self conscious. At your age, most of the time a friend will tell a friend and it will most likely get back to him that you like him without having to jump hoops to make him notice it. So just live your life, if he wants to date you, he'll make a move.
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