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writes:So i dont care what you say about me but i would like advice please..but yeah im dating this guy and we've been dating for awhile and yeah hes cheated on my once and the family knows...but me and him are secretly dating...none of my family knows, they think we broke up. but my question is, what do i say or do if they end up finding out?! i really need advise please:[
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): Do whatever you want, but this is an old story and the ending never changes.In just a couple years you won't live with your family anymore, and suddenly being with this bad boy won't carry the same naughty exciting thrill that it does now. You'll just be left with an asshole BF that keeps cheating on you. Because no matter how much you claim to have been hurt by it, you've shown him that you won't leave him over it and that's all that matters. By then you'll probably be too attached to dump him even though you'll know you need to. This is a miserable place to be. And just when you'll need it most, your relationship with you family will be rocky because of your decisions all along the way.I know you won't take my advice but I just wanted you to hear it. I just want it to gnaw at the back of your mind during those times when you're pissed at your BF in the future. Just try not to mess things up with your family any more than necessary right now. You'll be glad you did in the long run.
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reader, bon  +, writes (11 September 2008):
well has it got anythin to do wit ya family? no so just come clean and tell them. there is not alot that can do apart from give u advice and maybe critasise
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reader, girlygirl1 +, writes (11 September 2008):
 Hey,
Im going through this same thing right now. Expect my guy wont admitt that he has cheated on me...I just dont tell my parents, We have a kid together, I just say that Im going over there, so he can see his son...
just be like its my life, thanks for the advice, but i need to figure this out on my own... :-)
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