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writes: Dear all, I am afraid this is my third time of posting the same question on the forum. Many of you have given me very valuable advice, but still, I fail to solve the problem I am facing. If you see me in person, I am sure you can hardly imagine I am a victim of domestic violence, child abuse and school bully. The childhood trauma has resulted in a poor interpersonal skill and even suicidal thought for once. In order to protect my reputation, I dress up in my best everyday and greet my acquaintance with a polite smile. I also avoid having long conversation with any of my acquaintance. This is the only way to conceal my secrets. My family has realized my problem and they have been very loving and caring. As long as they are together with me, I am almost certain that I will not suffer another emotional collapse. Nevertheless, I am going back to university in the middle of September. My ex-housemates already know about my emotional problems. I am powerless to stop them from gossiping. I am extremely worried that this will let down my academic performance. Every time when I think of the challenges I am facing, I comfort myself with a despicable habit. I locked the door and switch off the light and then masturbate on a teacher I admire. I masturbate almost twice a day, and I am sure it is very uncommon about ladies. I genuinely wish I can live my life like a normal girl. My conscience is whispering to me that my teacher will feel disgusted if he knew about my sexual fantasy. I want to know how young ladies abstain from an addiction and suppress their emotions. I know it is a very long question, thank you for reading it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): darling masterbating is just a way to comfort yourself and have some pleasure in the process, sometimes if your feeling a little scared or unhappy it may be that you do it more often than you would if life was going well, its perfectly natural, once a week or six times a day who is counting its your private time please dont feel guilty for it one day you will have a loving relationship and it may be you wont need this so often or maybe it will carry on just the same there is no right and wrong, you sound like you have lots to look forward to in the future so hopefully from your hard work studying you will get a great career and a happy successful life lots of luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): What's unhealthy & wrong about masturbating while thinking of some mature adult man you know of?
A relationship with him may not be a good idea, but masturbation fantasies are nothing dangerous to you well-being.
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reader, supermum  +, writes (11 September 2008):
 Although you are obviously upset about this, masturbating is extremely common in young people and adults alike, and there is no real harm to doing it... i masturbate at least twice a day, and still have a helathy life and sex life. try not to let this get you down.
Regards your teacher, he does not need to know unless you tell him, which im sure you have no intention of doing
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