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What is so sexy or unique about anal sex? The idea disgusts me! Should I try it?

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Question - (11 September 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2008)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi uncles and aunts. Lets cut to the chase... I wanna know what is so sexy or unique about anal sex! More than just once, my bf has been moving to my back site before i could lead him to the correct one. Lol! Sometimes i think he'd be doing that deliberately, maybe because he wanted to have a taste of it there but i'm just not sure. Should i try it? The thought of it is disgusting to me!! Just wanna know if does it taste much better from the back for guys or is it just the same?

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (11 September 2008):

My guy says that it feels different which he like. Personally anal sex isn't that great it has its brief moments but I mostly just do it for my guy not for myself. If you really cant stand the idea then dont do it. If you are up tight and not sure then you are a lot more likely to get hurt during anal sex. It will cause you to be really tight and uncomfortable.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008):

I can only speak personally and would just say, anal sex is a thing I would contemplate with a partner when it's a case of 'what shall we try next?' By that, I mean we have been together a long time sex-wise and may seek something different for the hell of it. I would have to really love the woman though. Certainly, for me, not the sort of thing I would want to do more than once in a blue moon. A warm, moist, inviting, pouting pussy just can't be beat!

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A female reader, femalespicolli United States +, writes (11 September 2008):

femalespicolli agony auntMy boyfriend wants me to try it also. I'm not comfortable with doing it, so I offered to try other new things as a compromise. Don't do something you don't want to. If he loves you, he'll understand even if he continues to ask. just say no man it's not gonna happen!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008):

Some people (of both genders) seem to really like it but I don't.

I think maybe the naughtiness of the whole thing plays a role for some people.

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A female reader, HonningKanin Norway +, writes (11 September 2008):

HonningKanin agony auntIf you are ot comfortable with it you do not have to do it. It can be very pleasurable for a woman, contrast to what eyeswideopen has said, I also speak for myself. There are more nerve endings in the anus and if I am realxed enough it feels very good for me.

But in saying that you have to be relaxed or it will hurt, badly and if your partner is too forcefull before you are ready you can tear. You also need to know your size. Not everyone can take pornstar sized penises straight away or even at all. You actualy have to practice to get the anus to stretch for a parter who is maybe well endowed.

If you are going to try it, be sure to be very very well washed back there, use lube or a condom that is lubricated and never go anus to vagina. That is asking for trouble.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (11 September 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntIf you think it's disgusting, don't try it. Personally I think it's stupid for women to have anal sex when they have perfectly lovely equipment upfront.

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