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writes:hey i recently split up from my boyfriend that i was living with 4 2 years. we were not getting on and he thought that i was cheating on him when i wasnt. he was very paranoid about me speaking to another bloke. he says that he is not ready to take me back because he dosent know how he feels. he say that he does love me still but whenever he gets close to me he feels hurt from what happend. how do i convince him that things have change and i love him. he says that he wants to stay friends with me but im finding it really difficult to. why do you think he wants to stay friens with me. whenever we see each othe we just end up having sex.he says he needs space and time to try and get over what has happend. can u plrease answer my questions cuz it is drivin me mad. im upset about it all the time.
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (11 September 2008):
 he wants to rebuild the relationship by easing into it. by talking, then becoming friends, best friends... and if that all works out, by dating again.
i completely understand how hard it is. that was my ex boyfriend's plan as well. needless to say, i couldn't do it. after being so close to someone it is very, very difficult to retreat back to just being friends.
and no more sex without dating!!! it will mix up the relationship even more.
just relax and try to distract yourself. if you ever need to talk to someone who completely understands, you know where to find me! gl.
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