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writes:My 2 year wedding anniversary is in a few days. Problem is that I don't know if I even love my husband. We weren't together very long before getting married. I was pregnant so we made the wedding be sooner than planned. So now we have 2 kids (one is from a previous marriage) and I don't know what to do. When I am depressed he isn't there for me at all. I have confided in him with very personal things and he broke the confidence. He lies to me and about me. He is on the computer or playing video games every minute he can. I get no time with him because he is so addicted to video games, that or his friends are always over too. We rarely even have intimate moments. When I told him if he didn't change his ways I would leave him, he promised he would change. I haven't seen any change at all. For about a month now, I haven't felt love for him. Do I leave? How do I know if I have fallen out of love with him?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (11 September 2008):
Tell him that it's the games or you. That you want a husband not another child.
Give a set time when he can play and when he has to stop and play with you.
If he breaks the rules cut the plug off his console.
Or just take the kids and disappear to a friend or parents for a few days.
It's amazing how men will refuse to change till they actually see you going out the door.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Htsunmama +, writes (11 September 2008):
leave him...its not worth it..you need to find i man who loves you 3 and your kids
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reader, Htsunmama +, writes (11 September 2008):
leave him...its not worth it..you need to find i man who loves you 3 and your kids
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): hmm lets see just try to get down on your knees and give him somthing he likes....maybe he will put down the games...to play with you insted....so you cant really be sure yet....
^ if u said no to the upper part...the you prolly dont love him very much but thats not really a bad thing...you need to be happy in your life... :)
hope i helped :)
XoXo
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