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writes:okay i have a slight problem they guy i fallen for (just going on 17 im nearly 16) has got a gf, he has been one of my best friends or ages and im really close to him like more than most people but like he hs a gf, and recently he told me he liked me more than i friend but i had to turn him down and told him i only liked him as a friend as i didnt want to cause trouble. I know he has been drifting away from his gf and had a few problems with her recently but i thought it was just a bad patch, and now hes telling me he wants to breakup with her and wanted to know how i felt. it really killed me to turn him down and im not sure whether to tell him how i really ffeel. any ideas please let me knoww!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008): I think you should be very proud of yourself, you have done everything in your power to make sure that you don't drift into having an affair with this guy. If he and her are having problems, and he has told you he likes you, I don't see any problem with you being honest about your feelings. It's his choice whether he breaks up with her or not, that has nothing to do with you. But in your position (and that's just me) I would tell him I like him a lot, but I don't do three way relationships. Tell him that you like him, but you won't entertain any ideas with a relationship with him until he has sorted out his commitments and feelings for the woman he is currently with... Good luck babes, as I said you have reason to feel proud of yourself, Blessings and take care of you always.
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