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Did he have sex with her and how do I get him to admit it?

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Question - (11 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend of four years took his cousin to the prom this year because we were "on a break" but still together. I went with one of my good friends and my boyfriend and I ended up spending most of the dance and after party together. I thought he had some weird relationship with his cousin they were always texting weird things and he took her to Kings Island on a double date and denied it for so long. She told me recently that they had sex and he is denying it saying she is a liar. Did he have sex with her? I don't know how to talk to him because he gets mad if I bring it up and I really think it is true.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008):

I believe a woman's instinct is always accurate. If you have a good reason to believe that he is cheating on you with his cousin, then he is probably unfaithful.

Another reason which convinced me of his unfaithfulness is his reaction towards your question. Many psychologists believe that lying men usually react fiercely when their dishonesty is revealed. His embarrassment might turn into anger if you attempt to expose his unfaithfulness. After all, having sex with a relative is not something that worth to be proud of.

From my observation, you have to secretly check his e-mails and text messages with his cousin. I know this will infringe his privacy, but it is better to be safe than sorry. If his true colour is unleashed, you will have to consider leaving him.

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