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writes: i got this problem with my boobs. they are not like really small but they are below average. i have never taken my top off 4 any bloke and my boyfriend always asked me why. im so concious that if i do it might put him off. even though he knows what size bra i am. how do i get over this feeling i have. i get really depressed over it and wish i felt comfortable with them. i dont want a bood job because i want to be natural (no offence to anyone that had one) just the way i feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): I'll tell you what - regardless of all the hype and all the crap we are presented with in advertising and other media...
guys LOVE small boobs!!!
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (11 September 2008):
 your 14 years old ? if thats the case you still grow till your 18 sometimes 21 hell mine are still growing wish they ddnt now their a DD48 :O hard to get bras i wish mine were small :(.. glad to have helped aphexy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): The bloke's point of view: In our society, big tits are everywhere, in spite of 'supermodels' trying to dictate otherwise. This is mainly due to the crap a lot of us eat - we're always hearing about the high percentage of obese people in our country. Forget that, maybe you are in a minority but I bet you are at least as sexy as the big tit brigade. The only way you're gonna get over this is to learn to love yourself - be proud of your naked appearance. Your confidence will then make you appear sexy, which I am sure you are. Quit comparing yourself and start to enjoy being you. Incidentally, my current g/f of six months is an 'A' cup and as sexy as hell! Oh, and your b/f obviously fancies you!Good luck.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (11 September 2008):
 Don't get a boob job and for the love of god don't have a baby as a means to make them larger as Emivia pointed out. I'll let you in on a little secret... most men don't actually like large breasts (especially fake ones)... in fact most men don't really care how big their partners breasts are... we are just happy to be near a pair. Some men may have a specific preference but in my experience in bar room conversations with drunk friends, we're all in agreement that any size is good, but more than a handful is generally a waste. Be proud of what you've got.
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reader, bon +, writes (11 September 2008):
bon is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou you both helped
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (11 September 2008):
well what is your bra size? my friend has a A cup and they annoy her to no end she wishes she was bigger but its not boobs that what counts its the person and when your with someone you take them for who they are and not what..its like when your a big person you worry that they are going to be replused but in reality its ourselves we have to please and not others..getting used to them is hardest part unless your willing to get a boob job your just going to have to learn to like all of yourself because many people like you for who you are and not your bra size..hope that helps hunnie good luck.. have faith in yourself and believe that you are a wonderful person big or small aphexy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): There's nothing you can do. I have small boobs and my partner loves them the way they are. By the sounds of things yours are bigger than mine. Don't worry about it. Would you jugde your boyfriend if his penis was a little smaller than average. Try not to feel so self conscious about.
There's only one natural way of making them bigger.............. and that would be to have a baby.
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