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female
age
30-35,
*alu
writes: well a couple of weeks ago this boy i fancy who i met through see cadets asked me out we're quite good friends and we talk a fair bit alot of people think we make a cute pair. The next day my ex boyfriend told me he still loved me and wants to go out with me and quite frankly, i don't know who to go out with, one side of me is saying to try someone new but the other part of me says i should be with my ex coz i know he respected me and didn't push me into anything. any advise would be much apreciatedhalu xx
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reader, halu +, writes (7 November 2008):
halu is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advise but i still don't know what to do coz i haven't seen the new guy for months now and my ex says he can't bere all the comments which come with dating someone 14 months younger than him so he wants to date in secret but i think thats sorta using me
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reader, halu +, writes (7 November 2008):
halu is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks for both of your advise but i haven't seen the new guy in months and i'm starting to think that he doesn't want to be with me and my ex says that he can't deal with the comments that come with dating me so we'd have to date in secret. WHY DON'T RELATIONS EVER WORK OUT FOR ME????:'(
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): I say date both of them
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reader, Anarchy +, writes (11 September 2008):
Hi,
Well it all depends do YOU love your ex still? Will this new guy respect your limits? Respect is key in any working relationship! If he does'nt then dont because you deserve more than to be pushed into things your not ready for.
All the best x
RWR=7
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