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Was I flirting to my friend as my wife thinks?

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Question - (11 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2008)
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My wife has always had a problem with my friends because most of them honestly are women. It's really become a problem now in our marriage. There is one person in particular that I happen to really like (as a friend) and she's flipping out because she believes that it is not a platonic friendship. My wife believes I'm flirting with her and I honestly don't see it. This is a recent text conversation that my wife found on my phone. Am I really flirting...or is she blowing this way out of proportion?

Friend: Hey, now I know who you remind me of.....(the name of a famous actor).

Me: I don't know that I'm flattered

Friend: He's hilarious

Me: Not sexy

Friend: He's cute.Y does everyone have 2 b sexy?

Me: Not everyone just me

friend: You wanna be sexy?!

Me: Of course. You don't cuz you already r

friend: Aaahhh, thats so sweet...but I don't c myself that way, just an asian girl

Me:Its why I like u. Good lookin people who know it suck

friend: I like u 2... ur a great friend and I luv ur family.

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A female reader, Aeval Australia +, writes (12 September 2008):

Aeval agony auntBuddy you are totally out of line.

If I found that on my husbands messages I would be devestated, put yourself in her shoes.

How would you feel if she was talking to another man like that???

I suggest you start paying more attention to your wife and talk to her.........

Honestly, that is really really bad

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A female reader, Aeval Australia +, writes (12 September 2008):

Aeval agony auntBuddy you are totally out of line.

If I found that on my husbands messages I would be devestated, put yourself in her shoes.

How would you feel if she was talking to another man like that???

I suggest you start paying more attention to your wife and talk to her.........

Honestly, that is really really bad

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A male reader, Replacement Canada +, writes (11 September 2008):

Replacement agony auntYes. That is flirting. And really inappropriate. So for the sake of your marriage... stop it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008):

It sounds like you are really sincere and love your wife but it also sounds like you crave female attention. You were definitely flirting with your friend when you told her she was sexy. Why do you think she made a reference to your family? She was obviously uncomfortable with your sexy comment and wanted to make sure you knew where she was coming from.

Why don't you focus your attention and flattery on your wife? In the end she's the one that matters the most and she will only love you more for it!

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