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He wants it less. I want it more. Is it him or is it me?

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Question - (11 September 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

i just dont understand.my husband sometimes gets hard and cums quick. sometimes he stays hard and doesnt cum at all. sometimes hell fall asleep on the couch i want it all the time. we have went with out it for 4days and the longest was 6 i need more at least every other day.do you think its me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008):

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thank you smiles i will definitly look into it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008):

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both his reactions to sex and my cravings. i'm always the one to tell him put your arm around me. but nicely when we go to bed. and it seems to bother him. but when were around other people he gives other people attention like our friend had a nice top on he notice. it just seems like his playing a mind game with me because he wants to keep me on my toes. Two nights in a row we made love and it was great what do you think? he wants to keep me on my toes?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008):

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yes i want it more than him yes his reaction to intimancy and i do crave it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008):

Dear Poster

There is nothing wrong with you; I do suggest you talk to your husband and explain to him how you feel; tell him about your needs and wants; open, honest communication is vital; his lack of libido can be due to many reason; discuss it; he could be very tired from work, stressed; is he on any medication? There could be various reasons, best is you discuss it; if need be suggest he does go for a good medical check up; if there is no medical reasons maybe a libido enhancer will help and yeah, try spice up the sexual activities.

Hope this is of some assistance.

Keep us posted.

Best wishes and lots of SMILES.

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A female reader, superrrshawna United States +, writes (11 September 2008):

superrrshawna agony auntis what just you? his reactions to sex? or your craving to have it more? =]

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