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writes:Hello, I have been going out with my boyfriend for about three weeks now. We go to the same university and as it is the Easter holidays he went home a few days ago. I’ve not gone home yet and last night I went out with one of my friends because she was really upset and needed cheering up.I got really drunk and a guy came onto me and kissed me. I don’t really remember doing it as I was way too drunk and didn’t know what was going on. I feel really bad for what I have done because my boyfriend is the only one I want. I feel like I should tell him about what happened but he gets jealous really easily. For example the other night I gave my number to a guy from work just so I know when he is working etc and my boyfriend got mad at me. So I’m worried that he will hate me for what I have done but I will feel a lot better if I’m honest with him. What should I do? Hope you can help me.Thanks, x x x
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reader, CupidFan  +, writes (22 March 2008):
Hey I think Paladin is 100% correct. You didn't have to drink the drinks you did it because you wanted to and that makes you what you are. Your friend was being nice to you by saying what she said. She wanted a friend not someone who got drunk and picked up on everybody in the place. You let a perfect stranger stick his tongue down your throat and then you act offened by the truth. You should be ashamed of your self. And then you critize the people who are telling you the truth. WOW I can see what you are. I pity your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPaladin, thanks for your replay but I think your out of order about what you have said about me getting drunk. I had no intention of getting drunk that night and I think people who have that intention are silly because you don't need to get drunk to have a good time. I don't normally get drunk or even drink as much as I did but my friend was the one who kept on buying me drinks that I didn't want.
My friend said to me that she was happy that I went out with her because she had a really good night and it took her mind off her problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): You're better off staying quiet. I don't understand what you hope to accomplish other than ridding yourself of guilt. If he's the jealous type then the result is obvious. If your feelings for you bf are true don't let it happen again... drunk or otherwise.
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reader, Paladin +, writes (9 March 2008):
 Drop it. He doesn't need to know every minor detail and yes it is minor. The fact that you let yourself get drunk would be of greater concern. That part I don't understand. You said you went out with a friend who was really upset and needed to be cheered up and then when she needs you the most you get drunk, that just makes no sense. Are you sure you didn't go out just to have a good time becasue it doesn't sound like cheering up a friend was your primary concern. If you really care about your boyfriend I suggest you tuck this little outing away and not bring it up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): One simple answer. Tell him, and tell him quick.
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