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writes: How do I attract guys? I'm in my teens and I want a boyfriend but I don't know how to get one. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, EssentiallyMe +, writes (11 March 2008):
First of all, get up an extra hour every morning and get ready. Shave your legs and underarms, lotion your whole body, fix your hair, etc. It may sound silly but it's so important to feel and look confident because it radiates and attracts people to you!
Secondly, don't be looking! Just be happy and content with being independantly yourself and THAT will attract guys to ya! If you appear to be looking or needy, you're not going to get anything. Once again, that confidence is CRUCIAL!! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): A boyfriend isn't an object that you can go out and buy or anything like that. A boyfriend should be someone who you care about deeply for who you are, who you can talk to and share secrets, and who makes you feel special.
If there is a specific boy that you are falling in love with, well, that is a different matter - but there is no point in just getting a boyfriend who you don't care about as much just because you want one.
Wait until you find someone really special. He might come along quickly...he might not. Who knows? But don't rush into things - and good luck when you find that special someone!! x x x
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