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41-50,
*nci
writes:I'm in a similar situation but my boyfriend is engaged with some other woman abroad! He told my friend about it hoping she wouldn't tell me! Well she did and I'm just waiting for him to come back then I'm going to give back everythnig he gave me and shout and be strong no man can ever walk over me! The thing that actually surprised me the most was that he always said how much he loved me and if we ever broke up, he said it would have come form me not him! woow... I can't believe it he planned it all this time.. I feel really hurt cos I love him.... and I know he loves me too but hes forced into an arranged marriage and he use to love this girl a lot but he is 20 why can't he make his own decisons? What do you think? Would he go through with this if he loved me? He told my friend later on that he is happy that he is not marrying that girl abroad cos he told his mum and she said okay... but I still don't know I'm confused... help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): I know you are and there is no way of avoiding it. You will feel better though and it is time to find someone who will be right for you - once you have got over it. Don't waste time, you are of an age where your decisions are important or you may go past the time for settling and having children. It is very possible to waste years on people who are of no use and hardly notice until suddenly you find you are 36 and starting again. Don't panic but be wise from now on.
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reader, inci +, writes (10 March 2008):
inci is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeaa i guess thnx alot but im really hurt:S and i i know that he loves me we had suvh gr8 moments i dont know what went wrong?:S
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Don't scream and shout, speak to him and decide. You will come across very well if you speak in an adult way. Don't accept less than full comitment and remember what you are worth. If he will not be with you properly it is not worth continuing.
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