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writes: can anyone help me, am i being stupid or am i right?last night my mum allowed my sisters boyfriend to stay over and SHARE A BED with her!! she is 13 and he is 17! but not a month ago, she wouldnt let my boyfriend stay over because im 15 and he is 18 and she said she didnt want me sharing a bed with a man rather than a boy!! i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and he's not allowed to stay over, my sisters been with her boyfriend about a month and he can!does anyone know where the sence is here please? i've had enough of not been able to spend time with him, i used to have to skive school just to go see him because hes a "man" not a boy! so my mum says anyway, how can i help who i love?! thanks for reading, can anyyonee help!! pleasee x Reply to this Question
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reader, hello1  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 Wait, your mum lets your 13yr old sister have a 17yr old boyfreind and allows her to sleep with him? Also the fact your older than your sister by two years and your b/f is only one year older than your younger sister b/f??
Your mum is out of order, but she also sounds messed up. Why is she letting her 13yr old daughter sleep with a 17yr old guy? whos properly at work while shes only at her second year at school. Your family chav tastic!
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (9 March 2008):
 Personally I feel that what your mum is allowing your sister and you to do is really not great.
However, a 13 year old with a 17 year old is not right either as your sister is far too young and do they sleep in the same room and bed?
Your mum has got double standards and that is just not right I agree.
However being a mum myself and also seeing my sister with her teenage girls she allowed her 15 year old to have her 18 year old boyfriend under the same roof but only when adults were around and never allowed to sleep over in the same room or bed.
Her two 18 year old twin girls who have bf's of 21 are different though as they are adults and she doesn't send the boys packing as they are now responsible girls who have jobs and are leading a grown up life.
I don't know what the answer is here, does your dad live with you as it sounds like it is only your mum?
Your bf is only a year older than your sister's bf and there is less of an age gap between you and your bf.
Try talking to her more and understand what she means about your bf being 18 and an adult.
Wish you luck OK, no answers I'm afraid it is still your mum's house at the end of the day and her rules are a bit strange.
BFN
Country Woman
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