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My secret bf is being posted to Afghanistan...is it worth trying to make this work??

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Question - (9 March 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *uatras.sunshinexx writes:

So..I need help. Please don't judge me either. I'm 16 and i'm a "secret relationship" with someone 19. He's in the army and i've been reading up about how to stay together with him because i know i'm young and a lot of people would say that I shouldn't settle early but I like him sooo much. I don't know what love is but I know that i've never felt so sure about anyone like this.

We can't be openly dating because my parents would freak and because it's "illegal" for him. We've been planning a lot about what we're going to do after I get out of HighSchool because he's waiting so we can move and he's going to go Active Duty to pay for Physical Therapy school.

I know what your probably thinking that I shouldn't try to settle down this early but i'm so tired of pointless relationships and all the drama high school has to bring. Anyway..he went to drill this weekend and found out that his unit is being deployed to Afganistan.. :( I know i'm strong enough to wait around I just need some tips on how to make him trust me while he's gone. I really want to make this work..is it worth it?

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A female reader, cute angel Australia +, writes (9 March 2008):

cute angel agony aunthey its nice to knw that at this tender age your are so deeply in love with your guy..yes if u think u can make it work then why not go ahead but u should be sure if this guy u like so much is worth it and loves u the same way as you do..ur 16 what if this is just a fling give it some time for now enjoy high school

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