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Is it gay to join your female friends on a girls' night out and feel excellent?

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Question - (9 March 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, *aul3 writes:

Hi my name is paul and i went out with some woman that i know and it first it was just going to be just them to a girls night out.. One of my best friends asked me to come with them and i said i would and i had a good time. It was me and 5 of them. I was so relaxed and i was just myself. The one female friend of mine said she thinks of me as a g/f and everything. I guess that's why i was invited to go out with them. So i was wondering am i gay that i went out with these woman to a girls night out? Thank you Paul

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A male reader, Paul3 United States +, writes (17 March 2008):

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I want to thank for the females that responded. I really do appreciate your guys answers you gave me.. Thank you Paul.. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008):

One having many female friends, other men might observe the closeness and imagine it actually goes beyond friendship, thus envy the respective person. In reality, you probably have women's sympathy being the prototype of the "good friend," perhaps the listener or the adviser? Do you question your orientation because this occurence yielded unwanted comments from other men? Independently, the situation in itself is no clear proof, the truth lies within you. Do not be concerned about the night diversion or a recurrence, if women proclaim you a good friend the prejudices should have no impact on you, as I suspect this is in point of fact what troubles you. Best wishes.

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A male reader, Paul3 United States +, writes (9 March 2008):

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To the male reader who responded. all id like to say is that if Hugh heffner didnt have the money he did he wouldnt have all those woman in the first place. Second hed be a poor ass white man alone.. Thats all i got to say about that. Thanks Paul

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008):

You hang around with women and liked it and that makes you think you are gay?

Do you know what GAY means? It means you are attracted to MEN! That you want to be around MEN!

Simple test, did you want to screw any of these girls or did they go all giggly and flirt with you and all you could think about was that hunky waiter?

Oh my god, I just realised, Hugh Heffner must be gay, he has filled his house with women it is so obvious!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008):

i think only you know if youre gay. do you get turned by men or gay porn, or not find woman attrative. Because it's a sexual orientation it's more important who you actually want to have sex with, as opposed to what gender your friends are. If these woman are just friends, that's why you want to go out with them, im straight but i love all my male friends, though im not in love with them. However, sometimes there are days when i find them attractive and i flirt with them and get a buzz. Also, many straight guys are very sensitive and light hearted and feel they enjoy womans company. I think that if you are gay, you'll know soon enough. hope this helped x

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