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*lwaysndforever
writes:I had sex last night with my boyfriend ..im not looking to be reprimanded for that so please none of those comments. But the thing is after we did it..we were laying there kissing and i queefed..like a little one but i know he heard it..i just acted like it didnt happen but inside i was dieing. It was soo unbelievably embarassing; this has happened before with my last boyfriend only it was SOOOOOOOOOO LOUD nd durring sex and everyone including my current bf knows about that.. idk what to do. He's not acting any different but im sure he was SO grossed out. Is there any way to make sure that it doesnt happen again? Please...im so embarassed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): the man who answered you question before is telling the Truth all women make funny body noises during sex and to be honest with you its not worth bring up and don't worry
if you was too ask your friends they too would agree if they say they never done a noise before they either lieing or have not had intimate relations
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Well it's understandable that you're worried because if he queefed you'd be grossed out. Lucky for you guys aren't nearly as grossed out by bodily noises. I guarantee you he doesn't care
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reader, VeronicaSkye  +, writes (10 March 2008):
I really don't think you should be embarrassed, it happens to everyone, in fact some guys really seem to like it, especially if it's during sex (yeah men are weird sometimes). If he has any experience with women I'm sure he's heard it before. If it makes you uncomfortable you can always laugh & say something like "Wow there must have been some air inside my pussy from how hard you were doing me" if you are worried that he is going to think you just farted. However, if you really still want to prevent it from happening, here are some tips:
- do not let him pull all the way out & then immediately back in during sex, especially if he's taking you from behind. (sometimes this is hard to avoid, since it feels good to them & some men do it intentionally, I guess because they like the feeling of the air escaping & vibrating against their penis?). If he really wants to do this or you like it, have him only pull MOST of the way out & not entirely & it shouldn't push air inside of you.
- avoid any positions where it feels like air is being pushed inside of you.
- if you have unfortunately had air pushed inside of you, try not to relax right away or put your body in any position where it will loudly come out causing the "queefing", then you could always go to another room or to the bathroom right after sex & "push", forcing all the air out away from his presence.
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reader, Dazed & Confused +, writes (10 March 2008):
It happens to every girl at least once. The best you can do is just laugh about it when it happens. I always joke and say "that was your fault you know." We both just have a giggle and that's that. It's in your hands how awkward you want it to be. And if he is grossed out, he needs to understand that it's a NORMAL part of sex.
Good luck!
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reader, alwaysndforever +, writes (10 March 2008):
alwaysndforever is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell he did pull it out a lot cuz we were like trying different possitions and stuff so if we keep it simple and keep it in there then ... it shuldnt happen? ughh im so embarassed. like okay it happened once but i didnt wnt it to happen with this boyfriend. like i love him so much nd thts like so shitty. its never happend 2 n e of my friends.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Try to get over it and forget about it. I'm sure he didn't mind or care =] your a human your aloud to make sounds hun it normal x
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