I'm going through a tough time with my girlfriend, who is still living with her ex boyfriend

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am 29 and seeing a girl 25. she's everything i want in a woman,but we are going though some tough times. she was seeing a male about six mounths ago until they went on holiday and he beat her up. but just before they went away i kissed this girl and have ended up in a relationship with her. she says she loves me and would not cheat on me. but i live at my parents still. and she has a house with her x boyfreind. she still lives with her x and i have told her i am not happy with the situation. but there is pretty much noting else i can do at the moment. at first she said she wanted to get a house together,but now she says its to soon,and i said well do you think im going to be happy you still living with your x boyfreind.but she said she is going to move in with her dad.she has said she is scared of her x boyfreind because of the way he has treated her. and she has already told her x boyfreind that she has been seeing someone else. but he thinks its all over between me and her cos she is scared to tell him its still on.because she says she has no where else to go.and he is now controling.what should i do cos she said she loves me and she doesent want to lose me. but her still liveing with him is getting me down. please help

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