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writes:Why can't I fInd someone who's perfect for me?It seems I find these great guys, but they all have one fatal flaw that just means we'll never get anywehere.I feel like I'm going to be alone forever.Am I being too fussy? Why don't my relationships work? Reply to this Question
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (9 March 2008):
The reason your relationships dont 'work' is because you are searching for a dream! No one is perfect, no1 will find Mr Perfect. He doesnt exist in reality.
Having said that, I dont think I can say if you are being fussy or not, as you didnt say what sort of 'flaws' you find in these guys which ruin the relationship. What are thehy?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 In what way are you perfect? Are you absolutely everything that any man could ever want in a woman? While not impossible, nothing is perhaps, we doubt it. Be alone or deal with someone very compatible.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 If you choose people , people will also choose you.
If you judge others, others will also judge you.
Are you perfect ?
We all have flaws.
Who does not?
Do not look for perfections but accept them whatever they are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): I agree with the previous comment. I'd like to add that if lower your standards a bit and give a guy a chance, you might get a nice surprise. You never know: he might have something you weren't expecting that was exactly what you needed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): If you think there is such thing as a perfect guy, then youre wrong. I think you should lower your standards by writing them down and figuring out which ones are most important to you. Once you find someone who meets most of your needs, you should move forward with them. It is a good thing to be picky, but you should open up a bit. You will be alone forever if you never give anyone a chance.
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