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30-35,
*embob051
writes:I met the most wonderful guy on holiday 10 months ago and i fell head over heels for him. He is amazing, and although i am only 18 i want to spend the rest of my life with him. However, last night he hurt me in the worst possible way. He phoned me up to tell me that he had got stupidly drunk and slept with a random girl who he saw in the pub. We stayed up all night talking and he's told me that he can see us having a future, he was telling me he wanted to marry me settle down and have children. this is everything i have ever dreamed of. All my friends and family will tell me that he isn't good for me and that i should get rid of him. but i love him so much!Should i forgive him and move on with our relationship, or get rid of him and move on with my life alone???
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Is your love for him strong enough to forgive him and give him another chance?
Do not act in anger and later regret your decision.
Think carefully .
Alcohol can impair your thinking process.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): get rid of him...you'll meet way more better and way more worse guys ebfore you settle down...he'll just be another guy who let you down. he doesn't deserve you.
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reader, Harbbey3000  +, writes (9 March 2008):
D only gud thing about ur b/f is that he didnt hide d truth from u but all d same he cheated on u,u r 18 and too young 2 tie ur self down 2 a cheat,cos there are chances that he will sleep with many other girls once he stupidly gets drunk again.
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reader, Dimithri  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 he may have been honest and you'll have been going out only for 10 months. if he can cheat now, imagin how he'll cheat on you in the future? as every one one said it's up to you. you still have time, get to know more about him.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (9 March 2008):
 Your 18, your both young. You don't have to stay with a cheater, your not married and have children. Don't lower you standards. You haven't even been dating for that long, I mean he can't have been bored of you.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (9 March 2008):
 i understand people drink. but to drink to get drunk.. and stupidly drunk.... yeah.
he seems like a Real winner.
You will be forever looking over your shoulder and second guessing yourself with this guy.
so he got drunk... Really drunk... REALLY REALLY drunk and went to up a women and said" wah yah bootyfull.. letz hav secksssss"
and she said yes?...
OR she spent the evening talking/flirting with her and they got drunk togehter... and had sex? doesn't sound like love to me.
time to move on sweety. hard yes. right thing to do? yes..
funny how he talks of a future, marriage, kids and mortage after he's screwed up..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): Awww... you poor thing. Its horrible being betrayed - but I guess you have to be the judge of whether he's sorry enough.
Did he ring up to admit to you what he did, say he's ashamed and say that he's so sorry? Because at least he's told you - and not hidden something like this.
It is your choice though. Did he mean it when he said he wanted to settle down with you - and was his apology sincere?
Good luck with it. x x x
BTW - Perhaps wait a few days to see how he makes it up to you. x x x
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