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*litz35
writes:Well i have a question...i knew this girl since freshmen year and we got close and i loved her as a sister and she loved me as a brother... im 16 and my girlfriend is 15, and were both shopmores...we started going out on oct. 07 and we started likeing each other aroun Aug. and on oCT. we finally went out when we went to our schools homecoming... and then a mounth later i started doingsome kinky stuff... like um snobbing on her breast... soon i started to pleauser her wit my fingers...around Janurary there was an accident and we broke up cause basically i was being a jerk sometimes... i smoked, drank and was a gang member... things she didnt like and we arguee around the last mounth of r realations ship.. soon more drama started like i ofund out that see was hanging out wit my best friend bascailly a brother and then they went out.... when i found that out i bascailly did go krazy... my former boy was a backing stabbing bastrid that should be whiped out of this world... my girl friend was a bitch ass whore... soon since my school is made of 4,000 kids.... word gets out... most of my freinds htat were close to him dont talk to him any more and some of them actually slapeed him for doing that... he dosnt really have alot of friendsw and hte ones he did have.. most of them he last after he did that.... and alot of my boyz threahted him.... mobed on him... picked on him.... and talked shit... there were numoerius times which i was gonna either beat him or kill him and word gets around and she heard that..after a mounth she ended her thing wit him cause he was playing her all along...which i told her he was doing and she invesgated it... after that she started talking to me again and one day she said she wanted to talk to me... and she basically said that she was sorry for wat she did and that leaving me was a mistake and how she bascially lied to her self that she didnt love me anymore and that she lied too herself so much that she actually belived it and that she wnated to start of ass friends again like how were were before and after a week we started going out...after a week we started on the kinky stuff again and one daqy i told her i wanted to have sex but it was gonna be special... (I've been sexualy active since 14 and shes a virgin and since i started likeling her around Aug. 07 and stop having sex and even after we broke up i havnt had sex) the next day we REALLY got into it and i went from kissing to plesurring her and i like try too go for the cookie but she pushed me off... and yea its been 3 wweeks and we havnt done aqnything like that... im just woundering basically in my situation when will she deicied to give me herself to me... i mean i really love her and out of all this shit and drama and wat i and she did we both still love each other and we tlaked about it before when we first went out she said i have a better chance getting it on my birthday if anything... how do i take that since my birth day is 20 days from now... would i be disapointed? cause im tyring to waqit but my erdges are getting to me... and im not gonna go low like cheating on her.. i love her but like idk cause i really do wanna show her that i love her and that when she does this im sure she is to? any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): Honestly..
I'm a girl and if I was in her situation I'd want to wait.
15 is a little young and i'm not sure if she'd be comfortable with doing that. If you really love her you'll sit down and have a conversation about it and ask her how she feels about it. always ask before you do something sexual it makes the girl feel respected. Sex is a HUGE step in a relationship and hell you never know if you'll stop liking her in a year and she'll still b callin you begging you to take her back cause she lost her virginity to you..like you never know. The best thing to do is just sit her down and talk about it.
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reader, LouLee  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 dont be a jerk, wait until she's ready, seeing as she pushed you off last time u wanted it, when she wants it, she'll show it.
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reader, Blitz35 +, writes (9 March 2008):
Blitz35 is verified as being by the original poster of the question UM Ok FIRST its MY Birthday in 19 days now and im asking will she give her self to me... sorry for the misprint
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reader, Variety +, writes (9 March 2008):
 If you want to show her that you love her then wait until she's ready. The first time you went out with her you said you were a jerk and then the next guy she was going out with was only playing her. No wonder she is hesitant about doing anything. Sex is not so important that you shouldn't be able to wait for it when you love someone. If it is a big issue then she is not the girl for you.Hope this helps. Message me if you need to talk. x
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