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writes:I Think I'm Bi,Theres This Girl, And We Are Quite Close Friends [Not Best Friends] But We Have Laughs And Spend Alot Of Time Together.Well I Think I Really Like Her, I've Had This Feeling For Nearly A Year Now, I Find My Self Having Sexual Fantasies About Her, And I'm So Happy When I Spend Time With Her, She Just Makes Me Smile.I Have A Boyfriend, And I Told Him How I Feel About Her Last Week, He Was So Nice About It, He Even Called It Sweet! But I'm Afraid I Might Be Hurting Him, I Spend Alot Of Time With Her. I Dont Want To Make Him Jealous, But He Always Makes Me So Jealous, Hes Always Hugging His Other Friends Who Are Girls...I Don't Know What My Question Is But....Should I Do Something About My Feelings For This Girl?Should I Just Try And Forget About Her. I Am Happy With My Boyfriend, Even Though He Makes Me So Sad At Times.....I Dont Know...I just Want To Talk To Someone =(
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reader, mckenzie09  +, writes (12 March 2008):
hello, being bi isnt a bad thing at all, because its what you are you may feel that you will like a guy one time and like a girl more, this is a totally normal and this doesnt acctually mean that you are bi, this could just mean that ur confused for the mean time i think you sould go out and have fun take your mind of these feelings and in time they will become clearer to you..but if u are bi you will feel stronger for girls than you do for men..
good luck
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reader, mckenzie09 +, writes (12 March 2008):
hello, being bi isnt a bad thing at all, because its what you are you may feel that you will like a guy one time and like a girl more, this is a totally normal and this doesnt acctually mean that you are bi, this could just mean that ur confused for the mean time i think you sould go out and have fun take your mind of these feelings and in time they will become clearer to you..but if u are bi you will feel stronger for girls than you do for men..
good luck
xx
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reader, Nibblet +, writes (11 March 2008):
 Well if had the feelings for almost a year i doubt that the feeling will go away so its going to be really hard to try and forget about her.
I know I'm bi and my best friend always makes me happy and i also find myself having sexual fantasies about her and she just makes me smile when we send time together but shes straight and doesn't know i like her =s
How strong are your feelings for her? Are they stronger for her then your boyfriend? Does she know how you feel about her?
You might want to ask yourself some questions like that and see If you would be happier with her than your boyfriend.
I hope that help you any and Good luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): It comes accross, to me, that your in a bit of a mess and don't really know - who, what and where you are in your life. I see that you perhaps have a few problems which are starting to impact on your life and reflections!
Do you actually know what you want?
Try to catch up with all of this uncertainty in your life and deal with it so you become a healthier, happier human being. Think about it all for a bit.
'I think I am Bi'
'Is my relationship currently the best for me'
'I don't really know what my question is'
"I just want to talk to someone!!!!!!!"
This probably has not helped alot, but hopefully you may consider how many more uncertainties you are experiancing so things start to get sorted and clearer in your mind.
It is not a time to enter or pursue any other relationships, but a time to find out who you are, what you are searching for and how you go about getting started!
All the best, and just remember, fantasies are just fantisies!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): I'm not sure that your boyfriend will be hurt by u telling him this, anyway guys r known to like girls with girls!
But if you r happy with your boyfriend then i wouldn't go acting on your feelings and fantasies.
Does your good friend know how u feel about her? If she doesn't, first of all find out how she feels and if the feeling is mutual. Though, if u were to act on your feelings now, u wud be cheating on your boyfriend.
If u just want someone to talk to u can mail me privately, i'd be happy to just have a chat and try to help!
Good luck!
xx Hope xx
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