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writes:Should I walk away?I've been dating a guy for 6 weeks. We get along very well, although he's 4 years younger than me - less experienced and less mature (in some ways). He's very dependable and offers me security.But the immaturity and lack of experience seems to be causing problems, only some of the time, but it gets me down, he doesn't know how to deal with his emotions and oftem it's hard to talk to him, although when he calsm down usually we can talk.But my point is, should such a short relationship be causing me such grief? I'm so, so into him, but I hate the arguements his immaturity sparks off!
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (9 March 2008):
If I was you, I would find someone else who can deal with their emotions better. It might not just be a age issue, as A LOT of people dont know how to deal with their feelings. If you stay with him, you would be hoping and probably expecting that he would mature and learn to deal with his emotions in a more mature way but he may not as many full grown adults arent even good at it. Just something to think about.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 If you would like to be with someone who is not childish and self-centered, then do not date someone who is childish and self-centered.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 If you think he has the potentials , then you stay and polish up his maturity and experience.
If you think it is not your job to teach him about his inadequacies, then you let somebody does to him first and come back later for him if you are meant for each other.
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