I really want to stop thinking about my ex-girlfriend.

A male age 41-50, *inhora writes:

My name is Moses, I really need asistance in this, for a period of 4 year, me and my girlfriend we have been together happily, but I think every one while starting up a relationship there is this question, "Please tell me what really annoys you or wat dont you want to be done to you" so I used to ask my girlfriend such a question but she would just smile and reply wat annoys you annoys me, and I would feel happy,so as time went by, she one time sent me a message that her uncle was finding her a man(she is just 19 years of age)then i was like since yo father still takes care of you, you make yo own descission,but we would talk all this on phone,she used to say that its over becoz of that but I would talk to her, so one day after we had met and it was like passed 4 days I would send her messages but she would not reply, so I was so worried and decided to ask her if she was cheating, I know it was rude but still again she blasted all stuff that she can help it no more that we should stop the relationship how rude I am, but wat really confuses me is that when I call her, she pick my phone n we talk,we try to make appointments but after she says it wont be possible,so now am confused i want to move on but all this keeps confusing me that she might be punishing me then after some time she comes back or she may be fooling me to keep me hurt yet there is no reward,so am stack in the middle,(its now past a month)what do I have to do, I might stop taking to her even stop calling but again she might have done that to see how much I care if I can call back and if I don't I will lose her,i really love her, So anyone who has every gone about this pliz help.

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