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writes:So I have two questions. I've had two bfs who I have been sexualy active with. With both of them it always hurt if they fingered me, why is this? It never really hurt when having actual sex.Also, do most guys cum faster/earlier when having actual sex as compared to when being given a hand job?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): Lubrication? The penis is made to go in there, fingers are not. Long nails perhaps? Pressure being applied wrong? Try doing it yourselve and see if it hurts.As for handjob vs intercourse. Well it depends, when guys masturbate a lot they tend to be rather rough and it is not unheard off that guys actually have trouble getting enough stimulation from intercourse at first.On the other hand, the feeling of a woman around your penis is... well it is really nice :p If you haven't wanked so hard that your penis has gone insensitive (don't worry, stay off it for a while and it will change again) then you sure as hell will get there faster then with a handjob.On the whole when you are having regular sex I would say that a handjob is less stimulating physically then intercourse. Also remember that the guy is probably trying to not come from the handjob because he knows that he can only get it up so often, a woman doesn't have to worry about foreplay getting her off, the more orgasms the better, a man will have to deal with the fact that he is out of action if he comes in your hand and woman can be rather hurtfull when you come during foreplay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): To your first question, I have no idea lol.
To your second question, yeah they do generally cum faster in sex. This is because having sex provides moisture and the right texture and tightness. Plus, (this might just be me here) but having actual sex seems more intimate than just a hand job! The thought of intimacy and knowing you are both getting a lot of pleasure can turn a guy (or girl) on immensely. Just put it this way, your vagina does things your hand cant!
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