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36-40,
*ittle_laura0
writes:hi,I have dated a guy for 3 weeks which ended over a month ago, but i still can't get over him. the sex was amazing and we communicate really well. we still talk and sleep together but he says i'm not what he is looking for in a girl friend and that there is no spark there, but his feelings could change in the future.I've only just found him on a dating web site "looking for a girlfriend" which has really hurt my feelings. i confronted him about it but he says he was just curious.I don't know what i can do? I really like him and the thought of losing contact with him really upsets me. is there any way i can make things right?
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reader, little_laura0 +, writes (10 March 2008):
little_laura0 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni think your right. i'm just holding onto things hoping he will wake up one day and realise he cares for me.
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reader, Paladin  +, writes (9 March 2008):
 Unless your in it for the physical relationship move on. He has been honest with you and told you that you are not what he is looking for in a girl friend so clearly its all about sex. I don't understand why your feelings are hurt, he told you the truth and you have to either stay or go. If you think you have done something wrong and that is why he doesn't feel the same way about you your probably wrong. It appears you simply aren't what he is looking for long term and I would guess you have felt the same about someone. It doesn't mean you are bad. If you truly want to have a relationship with him I think you need to give him space and if there really is a connection he will come to you. If not move on.
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