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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I caught him watching porn and now I'm not sure what is the right thing to do, to forgive or to leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I broke up with my guy of 7 years because he looked at porn, joined a sex chat site,and chatted to girson aol aswell ascreating a myspace profile, notmentioning me and tatus single. All this happened over a month when we had a row and we were apart. Theres obv alotmo... (190 words)

Anyone think this might spark her interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age - I'm trying to find ways to get my wife horned up and wanting sex by leaving sex dvd's laying around my room. I have a nice variety and she is home alone on weekends but she doesn't seem interested. I was thinking male masturbation dvd's? Does anyone think that might spark her ... (53 words)

What can I to to start a relationship this late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 and single and have always been, I live in a retirement part of town, went to all boys school and college and work in an an guy place. I think of myself as quite attractive physically, charming, funny and the rest, I can get the girls when I go out to clubs, I'm not ... (73 words)

Am I bisexual ad should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok sometimes at school all i will be doing is just sitting there. Then a really pretty girl walks by and i hust stare at her and i have a boyfriend and i'm straight. Does that mean im bisexual? What should i do, should i tell my boyfriend that i think im bi or just keep it on ... (60 words)

She told me not to tell anyone, she was having lunch with a male friend..what's the big secret all about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there, my girlfriend is currently in Durban on holiday with her family, i phoned her earlier, and she said she needed my permission for something, so she asked me if she can go out for lunch with 1 of her male friends on Friday, so i said yes she can go because i trust her ... (134 words)

Is he or is he not...going to strip clubs? Should I ask him...again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently found messages on my boyfriend's friend's pages of whom he is very close with and hangs out with when he is not with me. the messages were from girls asking them if they wanted to go to strip-clubs with them for a night out. i asked my boyfriend if he had been... (246 words)

She dumped me, but how do I get her to notice me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, my ex-girlfriend and i are still friends (she dumped me) and i think i have finally gotten over her. the only problem is that it doesnt seem like shes even interested in being friends anymore...she never wants to meet up or never makes an effort to talk to me and it hur... (71 words)

He can't seem to make me orgasm... Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, me and my guy have been together for a while, and the problem is when ever we trying to please each other i never have any problems pleasing him and making him cum, but when it comes down to me i always struggle, he seems to hit all the right spots but nothing ever see... (92 words)

I'm so obsessed with this teacher at engineering school that it's scary! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Well… I don’t know how to begin. I’m French, so I hope my English is correct and that you will understand me. You’ll probably think my story is common… honestly, I don’t know. I am a nineteen years-old student. In September, I entered an engineering school where... (814 words)

What does an orgasm feel like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi people what does a orgasm feel like as i have never experienced one and would like to know what happens what you feel please help... (26 words)

What positions can spice up your sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i hope you can help me with this whats the best sex position if you want to have a more funner sex life with your partner, wat positions make orgasms more and more funner sex cause i would like to try something diffrent for a better experience and feel i have never ... (56 words)

Is it over before it began?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently ran into my ex boyfriend of 12 years ago. The only other time we ever saw each other was a few years ago when we met up and visited for one night. We are both married with families but decided to meet up a few times. The last time things got a little steamy with a ... (162 words)

Did I ruin my chances for dating him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, im a 28 yr old, successful, a taurus by zodiac.passionate about life, love, family and friends. Anyways i met this guy at a function, alot of eye contact, i initiated contact as he was in the same network for a work cause. He replied, remembered quite little details that ... (347 words)

I plan to give my ex an amazing evening when we meet up soon. Where should I take her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i used love this girl, and me and her were together for about a year, before i and her moved to different places. This was about 3 years ago. She recently starting talking to me again after i split up with my last girlfriend a month ago. I said i would meet up with her, or ... (64 words)

We've dated for a year, but he still talk to his ex-fiance, and I'm concerned. What do you think I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So i have been dating this guy for a year now. Hes been talking to his ex fiance and its driving me nuts!! I'm not sure why they broke up, all i know is when they broke up he wanted his stuff back and she called the cops and lied to them so he would be charged and put in jail. ... (354 words)

Our Marriage isn't working. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for sometime and I have a 10 year old daughter. I have been having marriage problems for the last 3 years. My wife works part time and I work full time. I pay most of the bills. My wife spends her money on herself and our daughter. She also has credit cards ... (281 words)

I'm 13, he's 18. We have a 4 1/2 year age difference... Too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 13 and my boyfriend is 18. We live at least 8 states apart. We knew each other when he lived here, but he had to move away because his dad was relocated. I know that it's illegal for us to be going out, but we're not having sex or anything. My mom says she isn't okay with ... (131 words)

I have feelings for a guy but he is a family friend so I'm afraid it might be awkward if he turns me down, what do you think, is it worth trying anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6196 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 13 years old, and I have feelings for a boy of a similar age (6 months difference). He's a family friend, so I have to be careful because things could get a bit awkward (especially if he doesn't like me in that way), so my question is: What should I do to get the boy, or ... (63 words)

The boy I like didn't want to date me, his silence makes me very self-conscious about my appearance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i guess that proves im ugly........this guy that i really really like moved to bainville and he was supposed to answer my question about goin back out with me........and he didnt tell me anything about him moving!!!! And what i dont get is that his sister and other family ... (88 words)

Why is it that I never want the ones who like me, and the ones I do like always just want to be friends??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this friend that likes me only i don't like her. at the same time i have a friend that i really like. this isn't the first time this happens. why is it that the friends i'm not interested in like me but the ones i like just wanna be friends? ... (52 words)

I started having spontaneous erections, will I start having spontaneous ejaculations too??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im just wondering, i have spontaneous erections and i no that is normal, but i am just wondering when i will start having ejaculations when i get erections - if i will ejaculate at all - and how to deal with the sperm when that comes out when i do ejaculate, so that its not ... (64 words)

Could he get into trouble for doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my frend was abused as a child by his father and his father was charged and the report was put into the local paper some years back. my friend would now like revenge on his father and has got a copy of the newspaper report and would like to go and show it to a few of his ... (74 words)

Why is he so against using spermicide?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts i have a question. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a long time and we are thinking about sex, (for my birthday). My birthday is in a few days and im really anxious because of the connection we share. But at the same time i have been having second thoughts ... (172 words)

Can the pill give false pregnancy test readings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I'm now quite worried,I am on the Pill and have been for almost 2 years i have regular sex with my long term boyfriend without using any other contraception apart from when on antibiotics for what ever reason as it is advised you use extra contraception then. ... (160 words)

We argue non-stop. Is my marriage over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi! Hoping someone might be able to give me some advice... I've been married for just over 4 years and we were together for 2 years before this. We've always had quite an erratic relationship - we're both very stubborn, and arguments have always been part of our relationship... (372 words)

If my best friend leaves school will I ever make new friends again? I have been bullied in the past and feel insecure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend might leave school soon, I've known her for two years and she's the only real friend I have at my new shcool. I try to be happier becaue she's really looking forward to it if she gets a place (It's a fee paying shcool) and I know she doesn't really like the ... (161 words)

My girlfriend of one year started hanging out with another guy! She tells me not to worry but I feel something is not right, what am I to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there. My girlfriend and I are together for more than one year now. I love her so much that I can't even tell you. Recently she met some guy and it is obvious that he likes her. She knows that but tells me not to worry. She says that she likes him as a friend but nothing ... (121 words)

My father always comments about my weight and calls me fat, it's become unbearable, I cannot eat when he is near because he stares.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i dont' know whether the webiste is for this or not but my father wont stop getting at me about my weight. am a british size 12 and he keeps calling me fat all the time and just staring at me and saying look at u. u need to do something about it. everytime i go to the ... (210 words)

What do you think he means when he says he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl and this boy flirts with me. He also tells me he loves me. And when tells me it, he laughs because he is nervous and shy. One time he asked me If I loved him back. I shrugged and looked away because he made me feel shy. What do you think he means when he ... (65 words)

Any masturbation tecniques you can recommend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6197 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i masturbate the normal way and an finding it a bit boring. any masturbation tecniques that can give more pleasure??? thanks:)... (24 words)

Do I deserve this mental torture? I forgave my ex everytime she decided our break ups were a mistake, and every time I forgave her she broke up again.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hi i am 38 years old , never married or engaged . I thought maybe i had commitment issues and always thought the grass was greener on the other side . One year ago i met a lady , a single mother and got on really well with her six year old child. We met of a dating site and was ... (1513 words)

She was my first, I was not hers... should I "get even" by experimenting with somebody else, as the thoughts about my wife's past haunt me regularly?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Married for 7 years with 2 chilren, have had normal ups and downs but very good marriage. My wife had been with 6 other men before me, and I was a virgin. We got married right out of high school so I know these encounters she had were just "dumb teenagers" but I still hate it ... (205 words)

Do I have false hopes that we will ever be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Very complicated. I have been dating a married man for 2 years. When we first met things were really good. He works in my home town and lives about 7 hours away so we were able to be with each other a lot. His work schedule is 3weeks on 1week off. He moved in with me about ... (726 words)

My girlfriend's ex is a good friend of mine and now he has gone really jealous, the whole situation is totally awkward now, Iove her, what do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i fell in love with this girl and she is currently my girlfriend , but her ex who is also a good friend of mine seems to be jealous and stil in love with her. I asked him if it was ok to go out with her and he plainly said said no. Also, he is always around her even ... (100 words)

The friendly neighbour suggested to bath nude in front of my wife, which we are not sure it was flirtation or humour. How should we treat our friendship further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I don't have a real problem yet, but I don't want to mis-handle a potential situation. New neighbors bought the house next to us a year ago. They are older than us (50's) and have 2 kids, a daughter who travels a lot for work and with her fiancee, and a son who is out of ... (679 words)

He is my teacher, but I have really strong feelings for him and now I don't know what to do with it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive suddenly fallen for my maths tutor, i'm not the sort of girl who normally lusts after older men but i really like this guy, i think he's about 20 years older than me and im 17 now...im not stupid, i m trying to ignore my feelings for him but i actually like him ALOT i have ... (453 words)

I am a good mother, but since my ex upset my kids they've distanced themselves from me. Is there anything I can do to get things back how they were?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age - i have 5 daughters i have been a good mother. I met a man who upset them and was rude we have now finished but now the family have distanced themselves i have tried to be nice and friendly but i am disabled and no one visits me and i am heartbroken the eldest daughter ... (214 words)

I seem to be pre occupied with death! Whats going on????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, this isn't your usual problem. But it is really becoming a problem. I have a 2 year old son and a loving partner we are a happy family all in all. But I am becoming convinced that I am going to lose either my son or my partner, or both. I am becoming incresingly anxi... (295 words)

I'm not happy about him seeing his ex due to his child. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a dilema, I met a wonderful man about a year ago, we both live together. He has a 6yr old son from his first marriage who lives overseas and I have a 13 yr old from my first marriage who lives with us. I have never had any issues with his first wife, I know they ... (276 words)

Should I be offended by what she said to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok recently i was on my myspace and on one of my pics a girl in my year put "wow you look great not like you usally do " we have had arguments before but should i be offended by this comment?... (42 words)

I like my tutor who's older than me. What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6005 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really dont know what to do...i like this guy whos like 19/20 years older than me...im 17 now, and he's my english tutor...i havent known him for very long but me and him get on really well and he's quite flirty with me, like complementary and stuff....except he has a ... (205 words)

Does he fancy my friend, who's just been dumped? He said he meant to comfort her by this allusion at my expense.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing my new boyfriend for a month and up until now, things were perfect, until last night. We went out for a few drinks, then bumped into a friend of mine who has just been dumped, and my b/f was like, "Oh, whoever dumped you must be mad coz you are GORGEOUS, in ... (165 words)

Stay with the man I love or follow my dreams??!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

- Hay there aunts and uncles. Hope you can help! So the story is - ive recently got back with an ex b'f of mine but having doubts about the relationship, not because I don't love him because i do but because i want to travel abroad. My whole life ive wanted to travel and wh... (142 words)

There is violence within my family and I'm scared. Help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 12 years old. My parents and my sister and always fighting and my dad has often been close to becoming violent on my sister and Im scared my parents will start fighting with me! Any ideas on how I can stop that happening (other than doing as Im told!!!!!!!!) Thanks From T... (57 words)

Love words and the importance we confer them. Is the language in which we pronounce them of any relevance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was just wondering what reader's partners would do if they heard the word Ti Amo said to them? (sounds strange, this question, but I'd like your views) Ti Amo means (from a web description) It means that you want the person well – very well, in fact. But it's even mor... (234 words)

Ti Amo: What if somebody said it to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

My ex is going out with my friend, and I fear it might be wierd. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so i broke up with my ex 5 months ago. we met each other through church. now i find out he might be going out with another girl (one of my closest friends) from my church. i have no problem with him dating again (i already have a new boyfriend). but i think its going to be ... (139 words)

My partner hit me, and I'm 10 weeks pregnant with his child. I'm confused...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 10 weeks pregnant and have a child already to the same guy, he argued with me because he wanted the house tidying and because i said i was changing my daughter he cme up to my face and threw a tea towel at me in my face so i went in to his face and told him never to do ... (82 words)

How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Heya again I posted a question yesterday about my girlfriend being distant from me i think the title was any ideas as to why my gf seems to be ignoring me?? (i got some helpfull answers thanks).Anyway i decided to talk to her and find out what her problem was but she just rep... (198 words)

I met a girl online, but I worry some issues I have will ruin a relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a woman on the internet about 2 years ago.When we first started to chat we told each other alot about each other.Her past scared me off but we still talked.After being in therapy,I relized anyone 46 is going to have a past just like I do.I called her about 3 weeks ago and ... (195 words)

I have pushed my boyfriend to the limit and feel I have ruined our relationship, can it be saved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my boyfriend so much but I think I am killing my relationship. I cant stop myself from being so intense and bitchy. I know we're at breaking point as I think I have pushed him to the limit. he's been so pateint and he used to love me so much, but I can see in his eyes ... (96 words)

If you love someone, shouldn't you just be with them? Why does forbidden love exist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dunno about you lot, but I find 'forbidden love' hard to understand. There are natural problems such as 'unrequited' and 'already taken' which cannot be helped. However i see it as unnecessary to put a law on student-teacher relationships. And pointless tha... (173 words)

My boyfriend runs to his ex when we have problems and I'm sick of it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend keeps running between me and his ex, when he has problems with me he runs to her and vice verse. I told him to get lost as three is a crowd and i deserve better, do you think i made the right choice, i love and miss him too much for words... (54 words)

I'm 16 with a baby and pregnant again, the father has left me, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, this is a pretty big question and i know you will think im stupid when you hear the first bit but if you can help me at all i would appreciate it. OKay im 16 and have been with my boyfriend since we were 13, However we only became sexually active on my 16t... (330 words)

My friend will have threesomes with my girlfriend, but refuses to with his girlfriend, why is he being selfish?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve have had mmf threesomes that had involved girlfriends and my best friend. After we did the first time he asked if we can do it again with other girlfriends. So at least with 4 different girls we’ve had threesomes. It has been cool, and its not been an issue with him ... (302 words)

My boyfriend seems to be having commitment issues, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have had a bit of trouble with my boyfriend lately, he confessed recently he was a little scared of us and how close we had got so quickly, and scared of love, because the only time before he had truly loved it had ended up in a mess. I was very accepting of this a... (343 words)

How do you know if you will ever find love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i know this is a unusual question but im curious.. How do you know if you will ever find love? I mean im a 15 year old girl worried about normal things.. looks, boys and losing my virginity but one thing that seriously freaks me out is thinking im never gonna find ... (136 words)

His ex makes me feel so insecure, how do I get over this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend a year. We have a very stable relationship, rarely argue, I'm not an insecure or jealous type. He has plenty of girl friends which donn't bother me. Apart from his ex. She tried very hard to break us up the first few months. They'd been sp... (403 words)

She pretended she wasn't on birth control and refused sex, but has now confessed she WAS on birth control, should I be angry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfiend and I have been together for a year, and due to financial issues, she claimed she couldn't afford birth control. For two months she's supposedly been off birth control, but she confessed today that she has been taking birth control, and has been holding back as far ... (66 words)

After 2 1/2 years, my boyfriend wants to move to Australia...without me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend 2 1/2 years ago and we spend so much time together (maybe too much sometimes) I always knew he wanted to move to Australia eventually as his bro lives out there and he wants to get his mum out there on permenant residancy so he needs to move there in order ... (177 words)

I'm a young mother who's been out of the dating scene a while, any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

- I'm 20 years old and I had a baby seven months ago, and his father left 6 months ago after a four year relationship. I feel that I need to move on with my life and have recently met someone who I would like to get to know better and possibly have a relationship with. My proble... (197 words)

He wants me to move to Oz from the UK but I'm feeling hot and cold...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a total mess emotionally. My boyfriend is now living in another country and wants me there. He is getting very frustrated at how long it is taking me to make the move out to be with him but I am getting really cold feet and cannot for the life of me decide. Its not ... (485 words)

How do you have cyber sex?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How EXACTLY do you have cyber sex? Becuase i've been going out with this girl for a while now over the net and she's implied she would like to do it... but i'm not sure if i want to..... ... (42 words)

Is it a good idea to stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 31 married wth kids. The problem is the love has gone out of the relationship. Over the past 5-6mths i have ben seeing someone else and have fallin in love with him, (he also feels the same) we both feel the same about each other. (he also has kids and a partner). We have ... (136 words)

How can I make him jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - dear agony men and women. ive only just been told about this site and told it was really good anyway. i really need advice and ideas on how to get an ex boyfriend back we've been seperated for a few weeks and had no contact since, but i still really like him.im not sure if hes ... (131 words)

How do I tell my partner that I'm feeling really low?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don’t know how to tell my partner that I am feeling really low. I have always been prone to depression now and again, but I have been struggling with an extremely heavy workload which my boss didn’t appreciate until it was too late. I had what is called an ‘unexplained ... (511 words)

How can I blank out these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6198 days ago

2 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex-girlfriend is in the arms of another man, and I am now very jealous and upset by it, and feel very lonely. It has nowt to do with me, I know, but I worry about if she's happier with him than she was with me. Also, I worry that he pleasures her more than I used to. These ... (83 words)

I'm falling in love with my best friend who lives 500 miles away. Should I try to move on or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been best friends with this guy for 4 years. He means the world to me and he has always been there for me. He knows me better than anyone, and he has sat on the phone with me all night listening to me cry when I'm upset about something on more than one occassion. I can ... (375 words)

She wants to go out and have sex with other guys, and she won't choose between me and tthem. What can I do to have her all to myself?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello! My girlfriend and I are together for a year and a half now. We both never liked going out but she got some new friends and she started going out with them. She changed and when I confronted her about it she said that she doesn't feel about me the way she did and that she ... (162 words)

I'm in love with my older sister

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i am 15 and in love with my 20 year old sister. when i was about 10 she used to put lip stick on and kiss me on my cheek ect. how do i find out if she loves me without me asking her... (47 words)

I like this girl and need advice on how to ask her out!

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey um i like this girl and am kind of sure that she likes me. i wanna ask her out (as in "please be my girlfriend?" or "are you interested in going to a movie with me?" at school on Jan. 7 so i'd need the advice by then. Anyway, this question is a follow-up of one if posted so ... (164 words)

I'm 13 and a porn addict

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help. I'm a porn adict and i cant steam to stop watching it. I'm 13 and i was exposed to it as a young girl. My mom has been suspecting it but i really want to stop do you people have any suggestions?... (49 words)

Could there be something chemically wrong with him?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband leaves for basic training on Jan. 8th so we should be all over each other, right? Not the case! We haven't had sex in over 3 weeks!!! It's not loss of attraction or sexual desire, but I've been working a lot, he and I just got over a cold, et cetera.. Here is one of ... (105 words)

I really like this girl but she has a boyfriend and she's older....

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that i really like i have her for one class but i hang out with her on saturdays because we're in cross country she usually says hi in school but i'm usually the one to call her she always gives me hugs and touches me and jokes around with me and tells that ... (110 words)

I've never had a girlfriend due to being too shy, help!

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 Years old and still haven't had any kind of relationship with a girl i am actually good looking i know because girls tell me all the time i am athletic i have a perfect gpa and i always dress good my only problem is i'm painfully shy. sometimes i get the nerve to go ... (86 words)

I'm 15 and he's 17, is that too much of an age gap?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok im 15 years old and im dating a guy whos 17 turning 18 in febuary, we've been going out for a good while now. not having sex or nething. and he told me sex can wait forever. he just likes spending time with me, i really like him! but my parents and his parents are ... (84 words)

Am I expecting to much after a physical and emotional affair?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancee cheated on me with a co-worker in September '07. The night it happened her, the person with whom she cheated with and some of their mutual friends from work went out drinking. To make a long story short, after that night she started displaying all the "usual" ... (416 words)

I give my wife regular oral sex, but she won't return the favour, how do I approach this subject with her?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there, I have been married 2 years back and my partner is not too much comfortable giving me oral sex. she does not even want to kiss my penis. Can someone guide me how shall i encourage her to do the same? She is really a very simple and cute girl and therefo... (150 words)

How can I bring up the issue of birth control with my Mom without her getting the wrong idea?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to go on birth control, but I don't know how to ask my mom. I'm afraid she's going to think that I'm going off and having sex with all the boys I hang out with. Really, I just want to be safe, just in case! Any ideas on how I can bring this up with my mom?... (59 words)

I really like this girl, but I'm afraid to ask her out as she's a party girl and I think she would cheat...

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What do you think of this? I've been really flirty with a girl who I like, and she likes me, we hooked up once, but I'm affraid to ask her out because I think she's not going to be faithful. On a Myspace survey she said she doesn't believe in love and isn't ready to commi... (153 words)

Am I some sort of sexual deviant?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so this question is going to be a bit weird, but here goes... My friend sent me a site the other day as a joke, and when I opened the link it was hermaphrodite porn. And for whatever reason I got turned on by it. I'm not gay beause I've never had any attraction to... (108 words)

I'm a 14 year old girl and can't stop masturbating to lesbian porn!

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What`s wrong with me!? Okay I`m 14 years old and I littrally just turned 14 last week. Anyway, I`m obsessed with masturbating! I`ve been doing it since I was 12. When I first got the internet on my computer at the age of 12 my parents said "dont look at things you shouldnt" and ... (123 words)

Wev rarely have sex and I have to resort to using a toy. Is he avoiding the possibility that he could get me pregnant?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am a 26 year old female. My husband and i got married almost 4 months ago. My husband rejects me when i try and seduce him. We probally have sex once a month if that. I have held this hurt inside for too long....i know that this is not and cannot be normal. I have ... (213 words)

Should I keep trying or should I leave it up to her to make the next move?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I need advice, there is this girl that i have always liked who a few months ago i discovered liked me. The catch is she was with someone else. We agreed that we would not act on these feelings since it wouldn't be morally right. She broke up with him about a month ago, but we ... (753 words)

Is being a best friend with benefits a recipe for disaster?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex dated for five months last year. We are now best friends. But considering our history, there's always that sexual tension between us. We ended up making out when we hung out the other day. We talked about it and decided it meant nothing... but now we kiss everytime ... (68 words)

Should I take a chance with him? He lights my fire!

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a man that I love for his sweetness, dedication, compassion and honesty. He is a nice man, who has a great job and can provide a great future for any wife. We have had a great relationship for the past 2 years. However, there is a man that I have had a crush on f... (455 words)

Needing some advice on giving my new girlfriend an orgasm, should we use enhancing gels?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone. I hope your holiday was good. so anyway I am hanging out with my new girl next saturday night, and we are probably going to have sex. She has had sex twice, and enjoyed it, but hasn't had any orgams. I have been with 4 women, two of who had around double digit ... (250 words)

I really like him but he's with someone else at the moment. He wants us to start off as friends. What should I do?

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2 January 2008 (F) - I kissed a one of my friend's friends last night and he just started seeing someone new. They aren't together, but I still felt bad about it because she was passed out in another room. I guess it was because I was drunk and so was he, but he kissed me back and said he was ... (493 words)

Should I stop talking to my crush?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy that I like has a girlfriend.He sends me what I think are signals..We always text daily he usually starts texting me first.We live in different towns like 10 miles away from eachother.I talk to other people from the same town.Well my crush found out that Im planning to ... (170 words)

How can I make myself believe there's no hope of a future with him?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27. I dated a guy for two and a half years, and he was the love of my life. It wasn't my first serious, long-term relationship, or even the first time i'd been in love, but it was the first time i felt like I knew what people meant when they say when you've found the ... (601 words)

I'm 12 and ready for sex but I don't know if my partner is

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 12 and are ready for sex but i don't know if my partner is what should i do? Should i just go up to her and ask her... (30 words)

I asked her out and she said no, but I can't get her out of my head.

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i asked a question about this girl i really like but she said no when i asked her out and you guys said to leave it alone. But i tried but i still can't stop thinking about her. Do you guys know what I should do?... (49 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to take part in a threesome with a guy?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old girl who has been dating another girl for a little over 2 1/2 years. I love her with all my heart...she is my everything. But recently i found out she and an old friend of hers made moves on eachother. It had turned me on if anything and something almost ... (151 words)

Does he have another girl?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i suspect my boyfriend have other girl outside.i really so confused,i don't know what i should i do?he look unhappy when he together with me...... (25 words)

Ex seems confused, won't reconcile but wants to stay in contact - what should I do?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex of 15 months broke up with me 5 weeks ago, said she didn't think her feelings for me were strong enough anymore. We didn't have any contact or a few weeks (we're at different universities) but over the Christmas period I've bumped into her a few times as we have the same ... (393 words)

How can I help her through this pregnancy?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello All, i'm new here and have some questions: First of All I'm 32 and my Girlfriend is 30. We've been together 3 1/2 months, and just recently found out she's pregnant. Everything has been going great, planning a future and things for us and the new baby. However, about a ... (124 words)

We love each other but he can't let me go. What can I do?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age - Im in love with a men that is married and he tells me that he loves me, im divorced and i have been a good friend to him, but he cant let me go. he is leaveing next year hes in the service.the intamacy is great and conversation we both compatiable and enjoy each other every ... (71 words)

I've only seen him twice in two years. Is there any future in this?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I met a man abroad in 2004 whilst I was living there. We lived together for 2 years. I had to come back to London, and instead of being here for 3 months I have been back for nearly 2 years. In that time we have seen each other twice. I told him that he needs to put ... (287 words)

I married an older woman and now I want out. How do I go about it?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 25 and my wife is 48 we got married for financial reasons only. We have been married for 5 years. I have hinted around about getting a divorce but she just laughs and changes the subject. I am ready to move on with my life and no there isn't another women in picture. I am ... (147 words)

Is he messing with my head?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help! I have been seeing a guy, with a girlfriend for the last year. It all started up about two yrs ago with just texting eachother then it got to other levels. The guy im seein is someone i work with and is 20years old. he says he wants to be with me and its ... (147 words)

Newly married..I have accepted my responsibilities...has he?

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2 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What can i do to make things right? Me and my partner both 23 got married 2 months ago after being together 2 years. We have a child that is nearly 10 months old. It seems our lives have switched, me being the party going, drinking and shopaholic have now turned into a w... (305 words)

She's amazing but sleeping with someone else...am I just getting played?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have met this truely amazing girl, the problem is she is sleeping with someone else, she swears its not a relationship, she also says that she likes me but every time i think i'm getting somewhere she pushes me away with some lame reason. I really dont know what to do.... (52 words)

Liked her for a year but she won't ring me. Should I tell her my feelings?

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2 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - the girl I liked so much for a year still hasn't rang or txt me not even happy new year. We're friends I even got her a early bday present but she seems to have forgotten me. I'm burning inside everyday. I think maybe I should ask her out. ask her at college alone in a few ... (91 words)