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writes:Ok, so i fell in love with this girl and she is currently my girlfriend , but her ex who is also a good friend of mine seems to be jealous and stil in love with her. I asked him if it was ok to go out with her and he plainly said said no. Also, he is always around her even though she says she doesnt like him and broke up with him because he was madly in love with her. I really like this girl but this whole situation is just awkard. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): Sorry it took so long to answer...
You probably don't need an answer now, but I apologize to the fact that it wasn't.
I think you should've spoken to both the girl and boy seperatley and explain how uncomfortable about it you are.
I'll probably never here from you, but tell me how it all went if you do.
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reader, tierani417 +, writes (13 July 2008):
 Hun. I know it's hard. My boyfriend and my ex hate each other now because of a simalar situation...My ex tells me he loves me still..but i'm in love with my current boyfriend and wouldn't ever break up with him even though i still kinda like my ex..If she likes you more, then she won't go for him..And have you tried telling her how you feel about this?? Talking about your feelings is a major thing in relationships...Message me if you want to talk about this more..Or think you need more help
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (13 July 2008):
 I can't really help much here because I was in the same situation (My boyfriend is the ex of an ex-close friend of mine) but one thing you should do is listen to your heart. My ex-friend told me it was ok to be with him (I never told her I liked him but she told me she wouldn't care) and when I went out with him she went ballistic and stopped talking to me.
I tried to stay friends with her but I couldn't stop seeing my boyfriend just because of her because I'm so in love with him. In the end, I chose him and she left me because she couldn't get over him...and still can't.
If you really think this girl is worth the whole trouble, then go for her, but you have to be prepared for him hatting you for what you will do. But still I'm telling you, listen to your heart and make a decision. I listened to mine and although I lost a dear friend of mine, I'm not ashamed nor feel guilty for it because I think that if she had been a good friend to me, she would had ended up being happy for me because I am happy.
Good luck and I hope whatever you decide to do will be for the best.
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